Rejecting and ridiculing somebody - Only for girls

[Juana]

I start this topic, cos I just was PMing a girl who says that a lack of confidence with boys is a turn off for girls. She said that a boy must have confidence and go to another girl to ask her out, when he has been rejected by a girl.

To my opinion that's not always easy, cos girls and boys have feelings and will be very disappointed when that one unique boy or girl will reject them!!!

So that remark of that girl made me very angry!!!! :mad:

Cos my brother-in-law and another boy I know had a lot of negative, unpleasant experiences with girls, who even ridiculed him in a way of Who the hell he's thinking he is that he dares to ask me out or to drink something and so now I wonder if you would ridicule somebody else when you reject him or that you stay polite?

As a girl I'm asking this other girls so I want only female reactions.

I can only tell I would always stay polite, even when in my case the boy would behave clumsy or isn't attractive to me.

:)

[Kate]

I would never ridicule someone for asking me out. I like when guys are confident, and it's sad that some people lose their confidence because of bad, past experiences.

[Daniella98]

Its true that girls like guys who are confident. And a girl shouldnt go out with a guy just because he asked her. But to ridicule him because of it is stupid. Ive noticed many girls can be really cold in their attempt to be cool, so it takes a lot of courage for guys to ask them out. Thats really WELL DONE.
If we need guys to have confidence, we must ask our selves: How the f*ck are they supposed to be confident if we are stomping them instead of helping them?
Even if our answer is no, it can be done very delicately and gentle, so he at least has courage enough to try again.