TMI with Birds and the Bees

[RRay99]

Wondering if anyone else here has had the same issue with your parents...basically have a great mom, but ever since she knows I've become sexually active, she's become "too involved". She's offering lots of sex tips on how to please guys, etc. but I feel a little weird (not bad tho). I want my mom to be there when I have questions, but I don't want her leaving Cosmo articles on blowjobs, etc. Any advice?

[leahmae]

i guess i'm lucky that my mom isn't that involved in my life. i'm sure she means well, but that has to be really awkward. other than being honest with her and letting her know that it's really awkward for you when she leaves you information or gives you tips. i'm sure she'll understand.

[churris]

I'm actually at the other side of the spectrum. My mom is very old fashioned and ever since she knows I'm sexually active, she has talked to me a zillion times about teen pregnancy and STDs and sent me links to articles and so on. Way too involved, but in other way :P

If you have that level of confidence, just tell her that if you have any questions you'll go to her.

[Laraa.01]

Yeah that would put me off quite a bit too!! I would just tell her politely that you feel a little creeped out that she is taking such an interest in her sex life. Make sure you tell her that you appreciate the tips and all but that she should maybe step back a little.

[allisonmyers]

yea there is def a lot of over sharing

[cheergurl]

My mom has always been really open but i dont mind. we've been more like sisters then mom/daughter since i was young so it's easy for us to share. she was very detailed about it when i was younger and has caught me alot but honestly it dosent bother either of us

[Lizzielikesboth]

My mom is cool but she knew that all her girls will be active at sometime. She helped us out with info if we asked(Oh did we ever ask stuff). All of us on our 14th Birthday got a box with 4 things in it A pocket rocket, a longer vibrator, a nice size dildo and a tube of lube. Mom always told us better to use these things then she be comes a grandmother before we were married. I bought my own strap on when I was 16. (Love Amazon LOL)

[RRay99]

Your mom might be mom of the year. I would love a kit like that ;) It's nice that you asked the questions first and your mom responded in a way you felt comfortable. My mom could be a trucker with her mouth lol. She means well, but sometimes what comes out...OMG lol.

[Elena_]

Well , I don't know how old you are but .... I'm 14 , and my mom wont let me have sex until I'm married :(
I don't wanna lose my virginity now , because I'm not ready yet , but maybe in a couple years ....
The only thing I'm pretty sure about it , is that I won't tell her about my sex-life

[Cangirl]

My moms like yours to and since she caught me masturbating with my best friend (a girl) she's all about being open and things. We were before hand anyway but sometimes she gets to much lol I have a bf to and she knows Im a virgin but have done other things and she just wants to keep me safe and things but wants to know when I want to go on the pill or need condoms and things.

It does get embarrassing sometime an she's pretty cool about not talking about it then after I just ask her to stop lol or stop for the 100th time lol. My sister teases me too but that different. So I think if you just tell her that you're all good in that department and don't need advice hopefully she will listen.

[Jennboh]

My mom is cool but she knew that all her girls will be active at sometime. She helped us out with info if we asked(Oh did we ever ask stuff). All of us on our 14th Birthday got a box with 4 things in it A pocket rocket, a longer vibrator, a nice size dildo and a tube of lube. Mom always told us better to use these things then she be comes a grandmother before we were married. I bought my own strap on when I was 16. (Love Amazon LOL)

omg thats awsome. i wish my mom would get me a dildo.

[KellyNC]

My mom has taken a mostly hands off approach, not wanting to know about or see it, while still acknowledging and has been willing to provide me with a pill prescription and telling me about the importance of protection. Personally I like it that way. As for your problem I would suggest you talk to your mother and tell her that while you appreciate her help, you also enjoy some privacy in your sex life and that part of the fun is finding out many of these things for yourself.

[dpriest]

Both my mom and step dad have been very open with me. If I have any questions they are willing to help me with information. Sometimes the advice is not asked for but I know that they just want me safe. If you feel that it is too much sit down and talk with your mom and let her know that it is making you uncomfortable and that you would like it if you came to her not the other way around.

[devon girl]

just tell her how u feel about this and have a chat with her im sure she wont mind

[Emerald Dream]

just tell her how u feel about this and have a chat with her im sure she wont mind

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