View Full Version : I just don't know
georgeishungry
November 9th, 2014, 03:37 PM
I have *no* idea what my sexuality is. I can't tell if it's all just hormones flying about the place or if I am actually how I feel I am. When I think about my future family, I always see myself being married to a woman, yet at the moment, I'm feeling some really strong feelings towards men too, but of a more sexual nature (to clarify, I'd say that around 75% of the porn I watch is gay) and men really arouse me at the moment. Should I even be worrying?
ImCoolBeans
November 9th, 2014, 05:45 PM
During puberty your hormones are all over the place, and you may consider things sexually that you may not otherwise, and it may cause you to change your mind/feel different things at different times. I think people are way too quick to label themselves -- you don't need to objectively be straight, gay, bisexual, pansexual, or anything -- it only restricts yourself and makes you fit like a puzzle piece into the way society looks at things. Do whatever you feel comfortable doing, you don't need to be gay, straight, or bi, you're a human being, who is attracted to other humans.
HockeyLovesMe
November 9th, 2014, 05:50 PM
don't label yourself until you are older I think.. but you are whatever you are and if you are nice then that's all that matters :) Being bi isn't so bad though :)
CosmicNoodle
November 9th, 2014, 06:14 PM
During puberty your hormones are all over the place, and you may consider things sexually that you may not otherwise, and it may cause you to change your mind/feel different things at different times. I think people are way too quick to label themselves -- you don't need to objectively be straight, gay, bisexual, pansexual, or anything -- it only restricts yourself and makes you fit like a puzzle piece into the way society looks at things. Do whatever you feel comfortable doing, you don't need to be gay, straight, or bi, you're a human being, who is attracted to other humans.
Ahh Mike, always good for a brilliant response. Exactly what he said, don't expect to understand it at your age, it'll come.
Jaseblader
November 9th, 2014, 07:24 PM
I have *no* idea what my sexuality is. I can't tell if it's all just hormones flying about the place or if I am actually how I feel I am. When I think about my future family, I always see myself being married to a woman, yet at the moment, I'm feeling some really strong feelings towards men too, but of a more sexual nature (to clarify, I'd say that around 75% of the porn I watch is gay) and men really arouse me at the moment. Should I even be worrying?
you are bi
Wyatt 13
November 12th, 2014, 03:05 PM
Dude Dont sweat trying to find an answer, give it some time.
Zachary G
November 12th, 2014, 03:47 PM
the best answer is to not worry about it, you are going through something right now and it may change with time, so for the time being just experience these feelings and have a good time. you have plenty of time to figure out who and what you are.
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