I don't know what to do...

[Melkor]

So, I fell in love with one of my closest friends last year. We have been friends for two years now and we go to the same church and same school. But here's the problem; he is a really nice person and ofc he is a guy same as me... and he knows that i am in love with him. However, I don't know his sexual orientation and basically he is the only guy I have been in love with. I am a grey-A and I don't know what to do we hang out pretty often and we talk basically everyday but I have no idea what to do :mad:. I want us to be more than just close friends. :( I couldn't get any good advice from my social workers and other people so i turned to virtual teen. :(

[JamesSuperBoy]

However much you may feel his sexuality his really for him and even if he was gay or bi there is the case he may not be attracted to you sorry if thats blunt but as he has not discussed this with you -

[Melkor]

He never talked to me about this matter even when we were alone but I managed to tell him that I fell in love with him but he tends to change the subject and not address it ... Idk

[SethfromMI]

well he could have feelings for guys but just be very uncomfortable and not know how to act on them

or he may not and he doesn't want to hurt your feelings, but may not know how to tell you he is not interested

in the end, if he doesn't tell you or won't, I would not try to push or try something with him, for it could risk the friendship . though if you do have those feelings, I would try to ask him again , just to see what his feelings towards you or guys in general are

[Melkor]

It basically makes me feel so hopeless about the situation. When i told him that i loved him and then he blushed but i didn't really tell him anything afterwards ... i actually found someone that i truly love just to give up on...

[James Dean]

Give him some time. Did you ever find out if he likes guys. That should be your first step. If he isn't gay then that's not good for the both of you. You are then messing with his emotions and that's never okay.

If he does seem to have the same feelings for you, just take your time with it. He might need time to analyze it so don't rush it. Hopefully everything works out though. Don't feel upset, don't let your friendship spoil. Work together on this, understand his feelings. :)

[Melkor]

I mean i haven't seen him with girls and he barely talks about them when he is around me. I had some girl crushes which i talked to him about and he wasn't interested but i just shrugged it off cuz he seems to be really shy and that's probably why he doesn't talk to girls that often. I will just try to see if he is any interested in me.