Stop wanting that 'someone'?

[Seafood]

I am so hung over with just having a gf.

I dunno why, I just really wannnnntttt one sooo bad.

[Devillain]

Well a few tips here:
1)No girl will want you if you fuck/have sex with everybody but her.

2) Go out and meet new people. No girl will crawl out of the TV or PC , well except for the creepy child from "The Ring", but that child is still a minor and could sue you if you had an intimate relationship. Also she is not known for being caring.

3) No matter now beautiful your eyes are, staring at a girl for a minute or more without having the courage to ask her out is creepy. Unless she stares back, then you will have the ultimate stranger staring contest.

Sorry, but a bit of satire must be. ;)

[Kate]

It's normal to be wanting someone to be with. Lots of people have that craving for romance. However, actively searching for the perfect girl isn't very helpful most of the time. Besides, there's lots of other things to focus on right now as a teen than love. If there's someone you like though, maybe try asking them out if your desire for a relationship is that strong.

[ImCoolBeans]

Thats normal, I think most teens have similar feelings and have a desire for a romantic/sexual relationship. However, getting too hung up on it won't help your cause, and will only make you feel worse. I know how it feels, but try not to let it get to you too much, there is plenty of other important stuff going on in your life, like Kate said, and the right girl will come in time -- actively searching for her probably won't work, and only gets you even more hung up on it.

[Luminous]

I know what that's like. Teens (and adults!) really commonly crave romantic and/or sexual relationships and won't really get over that feeling until they've had some experiences, and even then after a 'dry spell' the craving sort of comes back. I was pretty desperate for a while. I finally got a girlfriend, and had sex, and yes it was nice and I'm glad I did it definitely, but I realize now that it's good to just be patient. Worrying over something you can't really control is silly. Yeah, you're gonna still feel this anxiety and longing but try and tell yourself it's normal and it'll happen when it happens.

[Emerald Dream]

Be patient.

Wanting a girlfriend just for the sake of "having a girlfriend" may not always be the best idea. A connection with someone else should come naturally and never be forced, or it is not going to last long at all. That may work for a sexual relationship in a short-term thing, but I really don't think "I just want a girlfriend/boyfriend" is being sincere with yourself about being able to maintain an actual commitment.

[Seafood]

Be patient.

Wanting a girlfriend just for the sake of "having a girlfriend" may not always be the best idea. A connection with someone else should come naturally and never be forced, or it is not going to last long at all. That may work for a sexual relationship in a short-term thing, but I really don't think "I just want a girlfriend/boyfriend" is being sincere with yourself about being able to maintain an actual commitment.

i don't want one for the sake of having one.

I want someone who I am connected with, romantic and intimate with.

Someone who looks forward to seeing your face or to talk to you. Someone who wants you. Know what I mean?

[Emerald Dream]

i don't want one for the sake of having one.

I want someone who I am connected with, romantic and intimate with.

Someone who looks forward to seeing your face or to talk to you. Someone who wants you. Know what I mean?

I completely understand, and agree with that :) If I am going to call someone a significant other, then I have to have that connection.

Maybe I misunderstood "I just really wannnnntttt one sooo bad". That kind of statement makes it sound like you are willing to settle for any relationship you can possibly get, just for the sake of having one. Don't ever sell yourself short on what you think you deserve.

[Seafood]

I completely understand, and agree with that :) If I am going to call someone a significant other, then I have to have that connection.

Maybe I misunderstood "I just really wannnnntttt one sooo bad". That kind of statement makes it sound like you are willing to settle for any relationship you can possibly get, just for the sake of having one.

You're alright, I should have worded it differently, sorry.

[SethfromMI]

Well a few tips here:
1)No girl will want you if you fuck/have sex with everybody but her.

2) Go out and meet new people. No girl will crawl out of the TV or PC , well except for the creepy child from "The Ring", but that child is still a minor and could sue you if you had an intimate relationship. Also she is not known for being caring.

3) No matter now beautiful your eyes are, staring at a girl for a minute or more without having the courage to ask her out is creepy. Unless she stares back, then you will have the ultimate stranger staring contest.

Sorry, but a bit of satire must be. ;)

:lol: well done well done :lol:

[Body odah Man]

It's normal, I have this too and have never had a girl. Hope we both get one some day

[Seafood]

It's normal, I have this too and have never had a girl. Hope we both get one some day

Sometime soon...

[Body odah Man]

Sometime soon...

Agreed.