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runnergirl
November 6th, 2014, 12:02 PM
Hi im new here. I really need some advice :( i dont have many girl friends to talk to and i get embarassed to talk about some things lol! Maybe someone could message me on here or something? Preferably another girl who is around my age, im 14. But i guess i need whatever help i can get :(

Alright I guess I should sort of explain a little bit of what's going on. It's just that all of the sudden I have been thinking about sex 24/7. This is so embarassing...anyway so Ive been masturbating a lot. And Ive also been having these weird dreams about doing things with other girls! Ahh Im just so confused I need advice. Theres more too but Im too shy to get into it on here but if you need more details you can pm.me! Help!

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Xamyamyx
November 6th, 2014, 12:20 PM
Hi wats up ? Msg me if you want

lilmisslucylee
November 6th, 2014, 05:44 PM
Alright I guess I should sort of explain a little bit of what's going on. It's just that all of the sudden I have been thinking about sex 24/7. This is so embarassing...anyway so Ive been masturbating a lot. And Ive also been having these weird dreams about doing things with other girls! Ahh Im just so confused I need advice. Theres more too but Im too shy to get into it on here but if you need more details you can pm.me! Help!

Well you sound totally normal to me, it's call puberty and experimenting.

Cangirl
November 6th, 2014, 05:50 PM
yeah I think its normal to to think of girls and experiment and I was told that to. Im 14 to so i know how you feel about all the horniness all day and having to take care of that a lot haha.

runnergirl
November 7th, 2014, 02:28 PM
Wow. Ok. That makes me feel sooo much better. Thanks! I would feel so awkward talking to mt friends about that stuff. I guess we arent that open...

Taryn98
November 7th, 2014, 03:32 PM
Experimenting with friends or even just thinking about it is totally normal.

Abbeys
November 7th, 2014, 03:34 PM
I.m in a similar position to you,don't have any close friends I can talk girl stuff with, so this is a good place.
It's anonymous,you can say what you like,within reason and the girls here have all levels of experience,from very,to just starting out,exploring,experimenting.

laurakoller0815
November 7th, 2014, 04:03 PM
Its very important to try out things. Some stuff will be good and others not. I agree with the posts before. There is nothing bad on it to things about girls. I am bi and proud of it;) If you wanna share your thoughts let me know ;)

Laraa.01
November 7th, 2014, 06:19 PM
Yeah many of us teen girls have fantasies and sexual thoughts, it;s all part of growing up :) Nothing to worry about at all, I bet all your classmates are going through similar things

Daniella98
November 8th, 2014, 12:12 PM
Yeah many of us teen girls have fantasies and sexual thoughts, it;s all part of growing up :) Nothing to worry about at all, I bet all your classmates are going through similar things

Agree. Dont feel embarrassed. You sound perfectly normal. Instead of casting fantasies aside, try to feel them through and se if you like it

runnergirl
November 8th, 2014, 03:41 PM
Ohhh I see. Thanks! That makes sense.

ETA: OMG I had my first gyno appt today and it was SO humiliating! I literally have no one to talk to about it...it was bad!

Tina36DD
November 9th, 2014, 09:45 PM
PM sent!

Just be yourself and have fun...like I've said before, if someone say they have never pleasured themselves..they are prolly lying anyway!

It's perfectly normal to do it!

RRay99
November 10th, 2014, 03:30 AM
Guess what everyone else has said. My horniness is making me totally bonkers right now lol. All teenagers go through it.

runnergirl
November 10th, 2014, 12:03 PM
Thanks guys, that makes me feel better to know Im not alone.

BCgirl
November 12th, 2014, 02:16 AM
Sounds normal... and fun, try talking to a girl who you are friends with about porn and ask her what she thinks.. (I know you said you don't have many friends but maybe one who would watch...)

Karkat
November 12th, 2014, 02:47 AM
Totally normal. :P

Also, you can't PM until you reach 100 posts, but you're totally welcome to message me anytime after you do, if you want :)

runnergirl
November 12th, 2014, 03:08 PM
Totally normal. :P

Also, you can't PM until you reach 100 posts, but you're totally welcome to message me anytime after you do, if you want :)

Thank you so much!

Karkat
November 12th, 2014, 04:29 PM
Thank you so much!

You're welcome :)

leahmae
November 17th, 2014, 08:07 PM
totally normal and not alone