One Bully ruins it all

[Drummer Ben]

One Jackass always ruins it all. Surprisingly this time its a girl. A girl that sucks the life out of everyone she talks to and not in a good way. In my shop at high school she walks into shop and asks, what wrong with you? Everyone says your on crack, everyone thinks your retarded. I ask who? She says your grade, our grade. She told me she's just letting me know but I feel her real intention was to empower me. I have a feeling she made it up to. I faked my confidence through high school, don't know why I feel so affected by this. Reason is I never wanted to know what people thought about me and quit frankly didn't care. When people tell me things like that it makes me question who I am? It makes me insecure.

She's a junior I'm a Senior and screw her. I don't know what it is with her. Everything she says sticks to the mind. She feeds, plays with peoples emotions for her own satisfaction. I have a tough time letting things go but its 4 days on now and I still feel affected by it. How do I learn to let the crap go. That is what I need to do to take this head on.

[Lost in the Echo]

There will always be people like thris throughout life, so letting their words have this much control over you will just hold you back.
I went through a lot of the same that you're going through during 1st grade, up until junior high. It used to bother me as well, to the point where going to school was a nightmare.
What I've learned over the years, though, is the bullies' insults truly don't have any power over you unless you allow them to.
Being a bully is as low as it gets, so why let someone so pathetic have this much influence on your life?

[Uranus]

(Immature)
Hey, if she's gonna act like a bitch, treat her like a bitch.
Don't take any shit from her. She probably can't do anything. Don't let her break you down. If she's rude, be rude to her. Let her know what it feels like.

(Mature)
Talk to someone. I'm sure there's plenty of people who can help you. The best thing is to just ignore her and get on with your day. Eventually she'll stop after realizing that.
You can always talk to a trusted adult. Good luck

[Drummer Ben]

Thanks! I'm usually good at not caring what people think about me but this type of behavior hasn't happened in a long time. I don't take crap from people and people have learned to stop messing with me. A lot of people in my life respect me for that. It's more of a feeling of "Just when you thought you were on the right track, just when you thought people were starting to accept you". I have a feeling she made it up. in a way I really hope she did because I have no idea who I am. I constantly question my behavior. I transform to suit my environment. Yes I draw the line somewhere but I have multiple personalities. It's going to get to the point in my life though when I realize none of that matters. The problem is I'm looking for a quick fix. I feel if everyone else hangs out with a bunch of their buddies why am I not included. Do I have a higher purpose?

[queenofcontrariety]

If what she says isn't true it doesn't matter, if she's looking for a reaction don't give her one, it'll stop eventually. I realize it's hard and no one wants to but it's important to take control of your life and the situations you're in when you can. Talk to people you trust and see if any of her claims are backed in what other people have said, or talk to your guidance counselor or antibullying specialist (if you have one) if it gets really bad. Best of luck and keep your head held high.

[Lost in the Echo]

Thanks! I'm usually good at not caring what people think about me but this type of behavior hasn't happened in a long time. I don't take crap from people and people have learned to stop messing with me. A lot of people in my life respect me for that. It's more of a feeling of "Just when you thought you were on the right track, just when you thought people were starting to accept you". I have a feeling she made it up. in a way I really hope she did because I have no idea who I am. I constantly question my behavior. I transform to suit my environment. Yes I draw the line somewhere but I have multiple personalities. It's going to get to the point in my life though when I realize none of that matters. The problem is I'm looking for a quick fix. I feel if everyone else hangs out with a bunch of their buddies why am I not included. Do I have a higher purpose?

I'd say just be yourself. I can tell just by the few posts I've seen of yours that you're a good guy. You'll make friends

[CosmicNoodle]

When I was in high school if anyone from a year below you talked shit to you, you beat there ass. Stops them from getting cocky like too many juniors are these days. But that's likely a bad thing to do.

Just ignore the cow.

[Body odah Man]

One Jackass always ruins it all. Surprisingly this time its a girl. A girl that sucks the life out of everyone she talks to and not in a good way. In my shop at high school she walks into shop and asks, what wrong with you? Everyone says your on crack, everyone thinks your retarded. I ask who? She says your grade, our grade. She told me she's just letting me know but I feel her real intention was to empower me. I have a feeling she made it up to. I faked my confidence through high school, don't know why I feel so affected by this. Reason is I never wanted to know what people thought about me and quit frankly didn't care. When people tell me things like that it makes me question who I am? It makes me insecure.

She's a junior I'm a Senior and screw her. I don't know what it is with her. Everything she says sticks to the mind. She feeds, plays with peoples emotions for her own satisfaction. I have a tough time letting things go but its 4 days on now and I still feel affected by it. How do I learn to let the crap go. That is what I need to do to take this head on.

Reminds me of ym 7th grade year. Just replace Senior with 7th grader, girl with boy and change the location to Holland and it's the same situation. Those people are just sick. The pain never rlly dies sadly :(
It sticks around like a sharp knife. U have ym sympathy

[JamesSuperBoy]

One Jackass always ruins it all. Surprisingly this time its a girl. A girl that sucks the life out of everyone she talks to and not in a good way. In my shop at high school she walks into shop and asks, what wrong with you? Everyone says your on crack, everyone thinks your retarded. I ask who? She says your grade, our grade. She told me she's just letting me know but I feel her real intention was to empower me. I have a feeling she made it up to. I faked my confidence through high school, don't know why I feel so affected by this. Reason is I never wanted to know what people thought about me and quit frankly didn't care. When people tell me things like that it makes me question who I am? It makes me insecure.

She's a junior I'm a Senior and screw her. I don't know what it is with her. Everything she says sticks to the mind. She feeds, plays with peoples emotions for her own satisfaction. I have a tough time letting things go but its 4 days on now and I still feel affected by it. How do I learn to let the crap go. That is what I need to do to take this head on.

ok so you realise she just does the mind games and gains from that power - so just opt out - ignore her.

[SethfromMI]

if that is the way she is going to ask then she isn't worth the time of day anyways. just try to ignore her

[Drummer Ben]

When I was in high school if anyone from a year below you talked shit to you, you beat there ass. Stops them from getting cocky like too many juniors are these days. But that's likely a bad thing to do.

Just ignore the cow.

Tell me about these cocky Juniors. Wish I could stick it to a few but that's all I need right now. I know what ever happened to working things out with a good punch or two. Man if you tap a person, down to the deans. I can't wait to get out of this place where they ban water bottles, ban freedom of speech, destroy creativity, get out of this place and start my own life. I think Senior year is your hardest for that reason. Your legally an adult yet you still have to ask to go the bathroom, you still can't walk the halls without a teacher thinking your up to no good. What is this system I've been dealing with for the past 12 years. With Common Core its just getting worse. Luckily my state is about to drop CC.

Anyways I have to keep reminding myself that anything that happens in school doesn't matter, is bull crap, cause you got your whole life ahead of you.

[CosmicNoodle]

Tell me about these cocky Juniors. Wish I could stick it to a few but that's all I need right now. I know what ever happened to working things out with a good punch or two. Man if you tap a person, down to the deans. I can't wait to get out of this place where they ban water bottles, ban freedom of speech, destroy creativity, get out of this place and start my own life. I think Senior year is your hardest for that reason. Your legally an adult yet you still have to ask to go the bathroom, you still can't walk the halls without a teacher thinking your up to no good. What is this system I've been dealing with for the past 12 years. With Common Core its just getting worse. Luckily my state is about to drop CC.

Anyways I have to keep reminding myself that anything that happens in school doesn't matter, is bull crap, cause you got your whole life ahead of you.


I never ask to go to the bathroom, go get out of my chair, to say what I think, do do work my own way. I just did it that way and if they didn't I was always more than happy to talk over why I refused to obey petty Rules with my head, Mr Agenue. (pronounced AG-EN-U) I'm more than happy to follow rules, provided they make sense, if they don't. I don't follow then and my teachers kinda stopped caring and let me do my own thing in the end. Worked for me. And thats not me trying to look like some bad ass mother fucker, most of the people around me where like that, students in my school didn't enjoy licking the anuses of teachers to stay out of trouble, so we didn't. But I'm not allowed to encourage disruptive and aggravating behaviours, so (sarcastic as fuck) please follow all the fucking stupid rules your school sets out.

And I was never afraid to beat a bitch of he talked shit, just make sure there's no evidence and they can't do shit, or couldn't in my school at least. Talk like a bitch, get slapped like a bitch.

[Drummer Ben]

I never ask to go to the bathroom, go get out of my chair, to say what I think, do do work my own way. I just did it that way and if they didn't I was always more than happy to talk over why I refused to obey petty Rules with my head, Mr Agenue. (pronounced AG-EN-U) I'm more than happy to follow rules, provided they make sense, if they don't. I don't follow then and my teachers kinda stopped caring and let me do my own thing in the end. Worked for me. And thats not me trying to look like some bad ass mother fucker, most of the people around me where like that, students in my school didn't enjoy licking the anuses of teachers to stay out of trouble, so we didn't. But I'm not allowed to encourage disruptive and aggravating behaviours, so (sarcastic as fuck) please follow all the fucking stupid rules your school sets out.

And I was never afraid to beat a bitch of he talked shit, just make sure there's no evidence and they can't do shit, or couldn't in my school at least. Talk like a bitch, get slapped like a bitch.

Hahah, at our school your not allowed to go the bathroom last period. They force everyone to hold it in until the bell rings. Cause someone brought in a bottle of whiskey not in a plastic bottle but in the original glass they ban any drink even water from all the class rooms. Go to a tech school, half the tools we need to do the job to ban from our shop. It really is a joke. I figured out no matter if its a tech school or not if its a public school their going to have the same shitty rules.