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Devillain
November 5th, 2014, 03:07 PM
So, I met a girl and after smalltalk and a pretty nice conversation I got her number. So on Monday I asked her if she had time to meet on Sunday. After 3 hours she answered by apologizing that the reply took so long, and then said that her village has a festival in which she helps cleaning up afterwards so she can't. I'm sceptical, as my friends have different opinions. The chats are pretty good, mostly I open them but she starts some as well. What do you ppl think? Is she lying about the clean-up or not, and should I ask for another day? Thanks:)

Paladino
November 5th, 2014, 03:09 PM
Seems like a genuine excuse, if she talks back to you and seems interested I would ask her out again, don't worry about it too much.

CosmicNoodle
November 5th, 2014, 03:15 PM
Seems legit.

ThePhantasm
November 5th, 2014, 07:08 PM
Seems real, she could have faked something so much better lol if she lied

SethfromMI
November 5th, 2014, 07:53 PM
is there a festival party going on that day/the day before? that does not seem like a lie to me. It is one of those excuses which you would really have to think about pretty hard if your using that for your lie. she is probably part of the clean up crew or whatever. ask if you can go to the festival/party or whatever. still though, that just doesn't seem like the answer someone would give if they were lying

Lost in the Echo
November 5th, 2014, 08:11 PM
Yeah, it doesn't sound like a lie to me either, or at least not a very good one :P
But seriously, you should probably trust her a bit more. At least until she gives you a legit reason not to.

omgwuut
November 21st, 2014, 01:13 AM
ask her some other time and if she gave you another excuse saying she can't be with you, then it means she's just lying.

cbm89031
November 21st, 2014, 05:15 AM
I would say try asking her another day

Emerald Dream
November 21st, 2014, 06:34 AM
That's pretty random (and actually is a valid reason) to be a lie. I would think she was telling you the truth. Try asking her again.

Zachary G
November 21st, 2014, 08:05 AM
it could be legit and it could be a lie, then again, it could just be that she isnt ready to meet with you just yet. i would ask her again for another day, tr to be flexible with her scheduling, but dont pressure.

Uranus
November 21st, 2014, 09:15 AM
I think she's legit. Don't sweat it man. It's not like this was your only chance. You have a lot of days to meet up

leahmae
November 22nd, 2014, 03:27 PM
Sounds like the truth to me

Semi_IronMan
November 25th, 2014, 05:30 AM
So, I met a girl and after smalltalk and a pretty nice conversation I got her number. So on Monday I asked her if she had time to meet on Sunday. After 3 hours she answered by apologizing that the reply took so long, and then said that her village has a festival in which she helps cleaning up afterwards so she can't. I'm sceptical, as my friends have different opinions. The chats are pretty good, mostly I open them but she starts some as well. What do you ppl think? Is she lying about the clean-up or not, and should I ask for another day? Thanks:)

I say u should offer to come with her and maybe u could hang out while cleaning up, her response should tell u if she was telling the truth or if she was just blowing u off