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tdubz10
March 26th, 2008, 11:00 PM
Well, my girlfriend and I, have decided to have sex for the first time this weekend, and I need to know something I don't want to embarrass myself. I am 5.2 x 3.5 inches, will I be able to pleasure her?

Mr. Smithers
March 27th, 2008, 03:55 AM
It really depends on her. Some girls think penis size defects the sex activity. Some do not.

Gumleaf
March 27th, 2008, 04:26 AM
well i remember hearing or reading somewhere that the first 4 inchs inside the vagina are the areas that give the girl the most pleasure and stimulation. but really, i don't think you have anything to worry about so just relax.

ScotsGirl
March 27th, 2008, 04:02 PM
Well, my girlfriend and I, have decided to have sex for the first time this weekend, and I need to know something I don't want to embarrass myself. I am 5.2 x 3.5 inches, will I be able to pleasure her?

If you had a smaller penis, you would still be able to pleasure her.
It really isn't size that is a factor in pleasuring a girl.
Afterall, the clitoris doesn't need a penis to reach it :P

Don't be afraid to ask her if its working for her. If it is, great job, if it isn't then ask her what you can do. Or even better, get her to show you ;)
I don't know how open you are talking about sex and pleasuring each other, but if you dont, then its a good idea to start. It allows you to find out what you both really like, which of course, leads to serious pleasure :)
Besides talking about it, you can also read her body language. Her breathing, her pupils dilating, her moans...

Don't worry about embarrassing yourself, everyone needs to start somewhere. We aren't born with a full education on how to please our partners sexually, particularly if they are of the opposite sex, and Im pretty sure your girl knows that.
Be confident, not in your ability to know what to do, but in your ability to be able to learn :)

Communication is whats important, before, during and after. Not size.

P.S. I hope you have talked and sorted out protection. If you haven't, then unless you want a small, constantly crying and completely dependent being...or maybe an unbelievably itchy and painful rash with some lovely oozing....then don't have sex. :)

steven
March 27th, 2008, 05:53 PM
P.S. I hope you have talked and sorted out protection. If you haven't, then unless you want a small, constantly crying and completely dependent being...or maybe an unbelievably itchy and painful rash with some lovely oozing....then don't have sex. :)

lmao i loved how you have worded that...

for everyone that doesnt understand it (and im sure everyone does but im going to make sure) .... USE SOME FORM OF PROTECTION IF YOU DONT WANT A BABY OR A STI/STD!! <<<< basically what he means :):):):)

happytimes
April 2nd, 2008, 01:07 AM
this thread should be in the sexuality section in my opinion but w/e I'm going to answer you question. recent research have discovered that only about liek 1/3 girls have a so-called G-Spot. which is the spot that pleasures the girl when you put your penis in. most men with smaller penis are usually worried that they cannot reach the G-Spot. and this research makes them sleep better I guess. so really now it means 2/3 girls will not have a lot of pleasure simply by screwing her. hehe. anyways there are a lot of ways to please a chick. rubbing the clit and nipples are the obvious ones. even gently moving your hands around her body will give her more pleasure.