Friends whom are girls

[Gigabyte]

Hello, just in some help / advice.

So I was wondering if it was normal to get feeling for a girl that you just want to be friends with, cause I don't want to fuck things up between our two families. (Family friendship)

Any way not to feel these feelings?

Sorry if doesnt make sense english isnt 1 langugage.

[SethfromMI]

yes it is normal

and I guess if you don't want to date her at all, just tell yourself it is not what you want and you don't think it is right for you.

however, is there any reason why it couldn't work out if she was interested in you?

[Gigabyte]

yes it is normal

and I guess if you don't want to date her at all, just tell yourself it is not what you want and you don't think it is right for you.

however, is there any reason why it couldn't work out if she was interested in you?Not sure if it wouldnt work out, but she is 4 years older than me.

[SethfromMI]

well how old are you? that age difference might be hard depending on your age

[Gigabyte]

well how old are you? that age difference might be hard depending on your ageI'm 15, and I've also never been in a realationship before so that might be a facter.

[SethfromMI]

I'm 15, and I've also never been in a realationship before so that might be a facter.

that could be. honestly if you think there is going to be that much trouble. maybe you should prob focus on someone a little more your age

[Gigabyte]

that could be. honestly if you think there is going to be that much trouble. maybe you should prob focus on someone a little more your ageJust dont want things to be super akward if something goes wrong

[SethfromMI]

Just dont want things to be super akward if something goes wrong

well then maybe you should find someone your own age. 4 years is a bit of a difference sometimes for younger people. does she show any love interest in you?

[CrazyPerson101]

Hello, just in some help / advice.

So I was wondering if it was normal to get feeling for a girl that you just want to be friends with, cause I don't want to fuck things up between our two families. (Family friendship)

Any way not to feel these feelings?

Sorry if doesnt make sense english isnt 1 langugage.

weellll if you've got feelings for someone. unless they shoot you down, you really can't get rid of them. You can talk trash, hate and what not about tem but if you like said person, you can't really get rid of them

well then maybe you should find someone your own age. 4 years is a bit of a difference sometimes for younger people. does she show any love interest in you?

4 years isn't bad ( my family at least ) My grandma married a man 23 years older than her and my mom married a man 12 years older than her so age gap isnt' all that bad ( 4 years at least ). My great ( or great great ) uncle is 96 and married to a 28 year old ( he and his wife have been togehter 10 years ) now that's a major age gap

[SethfromMI]

weellll if you've got feelings for someone. unless they shoot you down, you really can't get rid of them. You can talk trash, hate and what not about tem but if you like said person, you can't really get rid of them



4 years isn't bad ( my family at least ) My grandma married a man 23 years older than her and my mom married a man 12 years older than her so age gap isnt' all that bad ( 4 years at least ). My great ( or great great ) uncle is 96 and married to a 28 year old ( he and his wife have been togehter 10 years ) now that's a major age gap

depending the rules where he is living, a 19 year old may not even be allowed to date a 15 year old. and at least in American society, a 15 year old dating a 19 year old would be looked at differently than a 23 year old dating a 27 year old.

[CrazyPerson101]

depending the rules where he is living, a 19 year old may not even be allowed to date a 15 year old. and at least in American society, a 15 year old dating a 19 year old would be looked at differently than a 23 year old dating a 27 year old.

True, that does make sense, I'm just saying age gap wise, its not to terribly bad but while you're a teenager, It's best dating someone closer to your age ( as you've said seth :p )

[SethfromMI]

True, that does make sense, I'm just saying age gap wise, its not to terribly bad but while you're a teenager, It's best dating someone closer to your age ( as you've said seth :p )

I totally do get what you are saying though, there is like a 5 or 6 year age difference between my dad and mom

[Daniella98]

Are you talking about controling your emotions? Could be nice sometimes, but I dont think its possible to do.

[Lost in the Echo]

Well, you can't really avoid your feelings towards someone, all you can do is control your actions. But yeah, a 15 year old dating a 19 year old does sound a little creepy, so it wouldn't really be a good idea anyway.

[Babiole]

I have female friends who I'm not attracted to. I have one blonde female friend who I'd probably never be attracted to considering that blonde girls aren't my type.

[Body odah Man]

Hello, just in some help / advice.

So I was wondering if it was normal to get feeling for a girl that you just want to be friends with, cause I don't want to fuck things up between our two families. (Family friendship)

Any way not to feel these feelings?

Sorry if doesnt make sense english isnt 1 langugage.

It happens sadly. U just have to try to suppress the feelings and eventually they will cease. You can't stop feeling them though

[Saint of Sinners]

It's normal. Unfortunately unless you act on it for better or for worst, I don't think the feelings will go away anytime soon. Maybe after a long time.