How to handle rejection?

[ZzeWatermelon]

So basically I asked my crush out, and he said: "No i'm sorry, I'm busy". And that's clearly like: he's not interested in me and probably hates me.Even as a friend. The thing is I see him everyday at school, we're friends, we mess up with each other, laugh and talk. I will feel really nervous about it.
Someone said that guys often regret it when they cancel. Is it true?
How am I supposed to deal.... with that? :3 I feel so nervous and bad!

[Paladino]

Sometimes the nerves could make a guy turn round and say no, or he didn't really think about it and then they will regret it. If he likes you he will probably ask you out, talk to him, flirt, see if he flirts back etc.

[ZzeWatermelon]

First of all: I already asked him out once, he said yes and seemed really happy (and quite nervous) but then cancelled the day before.
And now, since I don't even have time to ask him in real xD I wrote to him, and that was his answer.
See, I forgot to add that xD
Thanks for answering

[Paladino]

Oh I understand, maybe you could just keep being friends with them and try and look for signs that he likes you back, has there been any?

[ZzeWatermelon]

Yes, there has.
He often looks at me, makes lots of eye contact, tries to make me laugh, and seems to enjoy my company. I noticed even more things etc.

[Paladino]

Well take your time and don't rush into anything because if you do it will just turn out for the worst, good luck!

[ZzeWatermelon]

Well take your time and don't rush into anything because if you do it will just turn out for the worst, good luck!

Thanks for the advice! :)

[Paladino]

No problem :P

[ThePhantasm]

Just move on, there are other people out there

[Kate]

First of all: I already asked him out once, he said yes and seemed really happy (and quite nervous) but then cancelled the day before.
And now, since I don't even have time to ask him in real xD I wrote to him, and that was his answer.
See, I forgot to add that xD
Thanks for answering

It may just be that he panicked? He might just change his mind when he feels more confident. I don't want to give you too much hope though in case his feelings aren't actually mutual. Either way, don't get too caught up about it. If it turns out that he only likes you as a friend, then things might be a bit awkward at first, but if you wanted to, then you could probably maintain your friendship with him. Also, if you really like him and still want to date him, try getting closer to him and then wait a bit before asking him out again.

[SethfromMI]

it doesn't mean he hates you. it may mean he is not interested, but that doesn't mean he hates you

[ZzeWatermelon]

Yeah, but all the signs he sents me suggest that he IS interested.

[Kate]

Yeah, but all the signs he sents me suggest that he IS interested.

If that's the case, then he probably just panicked like I said. I guess you could wait a bit and see if he grows confident enough to ask you out because now he can probably tell that you like him back.

[CreativeUsername]

So basically I asked my crush out, and he said: "No i'm sorry, I'm busy". And that's clearly like: he's not interested in me and probably hates me.Even as a friend. The thing is I see him everyday at school, we're friends, we mess up with each other, laugh and talk. I will feel really nervous about it.
Someone said that guys often regret it when they cancel. Is it true?
How am I supposed to deal.... with that? :3 I feel so nervous and bad!

I went through almost the exact same thing (except I'm a guy), where she just said yea ok and just walked away. I'm sure that he doesn't hate you. I thought the exact same thing as you do, but now we're good friends. Sometimes you just need to act like you're over it. Just be friends like you were before you said anything. I hope this helps!

[ZzeWatermelon]

He does not seem shocked now, or anything. And there is a weird thing cause whenever he stands next to me he touches me even if he has lots of space. Like his shoulders, or arms or legs touch me for a long time. Or he stops and restarts, stops and restarts.
That's not usual is it? xP

[Professional Russian]

Go home. Take a couple shots of JD cry alittle go to sleep cry some more when you wake up :P no seriously there's 7 billion on this earth theres someone else out there for you