Question for the girls?!?!

[Paladino]

What does this mean .. my girlfriend for over a year n a half has been acting very weird the last few weeks continously changing her mind about if she wants to still be with me or not.

She says she still loves me and wants to be with me but she 'can't' because she says it doesn't feel right anymore, and she said I will always mean something to her and I will always be her best friend ...

Is what she is saying true or is she trying to let me down nicely, please help, my mind is all over the place with this atm.

I mean there has been times where I thought it didn't feel right anymore but it went away and it felt right again, usually after conflict or arguing of some sort.

Help :(

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[Captain Canada]

Relationships are usually bumpy but if one person feels as if they aren't feeling the same passion as before, you can't force them to. She is letting you down nicely but if she says she will still be friends with you, nothing to worry about. I would recommend finding someone else and not thinking about it too much if she does officially breakup with you. Just my thoughts though.

[Paladino]

Relationships are usually bumpy but if one person feels as if they aren't feeling the same passion as before, you can't force them to. She is letting you down nicely but if she says she will still be friends with you, nothing to worry about. I would recommend finding someone else and not thinking about it too much if she does officially breakup with you. Just my thoughts though.

She is very very fickel!

[Captain Canada]

She is very very fickel!
If that's the case, try not to do anything serious and try not to focus so much on the relationship. If she's quick to change her mind and what not, you won't want to commit fully to her.

[Paladino]

I was with her for a year and a half, heres the thing, she done this at the very start of the relationship a few times and after I told her if she done it once more it would be over for good she didn't do it after that, I'm just going to give her space, let her do what she wants to do and if it is meant to be it will be, if not, then there's not much point dwelling on it. It just hurts so much having loads of ideas running through my mind as to what is going on and believe love is blinding in the way that it can make you overlook the real truth and just assume.

[omgwuut]

normally, girls are really moody. they'll say things that they didn't really mean, they'll even say that they don't love you any more. if she did this before, then it means that right now (AGAIN) she's confused maybe about her feelings for you. Give her some time to think. I think both of you really needs to talk and compromise. If it continues to happen, your relationship with her isn't growing.

[leahmae]

normally, girls are really moody. they'll say things that they didn't really mean, they'll even say that they don't love you any more. if she did this before, then it means that right now (AGAIN) she's confused maybe about her feelings for you. Give her some time to think. I think both of you really needs to talk and compromise. If it continues to happen, your relationship with her isn't growing.

I agree with this advice...

[RockyRoad]

I think you guys need to sit down and have a talk..

[BabyGMarie]

Maybe shes interestedd in someone elsee sit & have a talk with her

[Paladino]

Maybe shes interestedd in someone elsee sit & have a talk with her

Already asked her and she swears it's not that, she "loves me" but she doesn't show it, and ignores me for days and then comes crawling back, is it true that if you ignore them back, it makes girls want to talk to you more?

[BabyGMarie]

Already asked her and she swears it's not that, she "loves me" but she doesn't show it, and ignores me for days and then comes crawling back, is it true that if you ignore them back, it makes girls want to talk to you more?

Yes that is true cuss I craw back to my bf everytime he tries to ignore me