Girls

[hockeyfan]

Does muscle matter? If so, wat muscle matters the most?

[Renata_cmp]

no it doesn't. What matters is: kindness, confidence, overall personality. It's how you act that makes you beautiful, not how you look.

[Taryn98]

no it doesn't. What matters is: kindness, confidence, overall personality. It's how you act that makes you beautiful, not how you look.

This is correct

[shybi15]

no it doesn't. What matters is: kindness, confidence, overall personality. It's how you act that makes you beautiful, not how you look.

Yes, but to most people, how someone looks is usually important very important too! Musceles ar hot.

[Daniella98]

no it doesn't. What matters is: kindness, confidence, overall personality. It's how you act that makes you beautiful, not how you look.

Thats is correct yes. But if those things are in order, we wouldnt be sorry if the body is nice too.
"Act, not look" sounds like a cliche, and some girls might even live by it. But girls admit it. There are some of us who have wild standards. If a guy doesnt look good, they dont give him a second glance. And while they gave him first glance she probably thought "out of my way"
You live in a dream world if you dont know there are many girls like that.

If the guy should have muscles I'd prefer it was all roundly balanced. But not too much. Those guy who are so wide they need the side walk to them selves and they have trouble reaching to tie their shoes. Not so great.
What Im trying to say is that atletic is better and bodybuilder is definitely not good

[hockeyfan]

I mean wat do girls find physically attractive?

[Renata_cmp]

Thats is correct yes. But if those things are in order, we wouldnt be sorry if the body is nice too.
"Act, not look" sounds like a cliche, and some girls might even live by it. But girls admit it. There are some of us who have wild standards. If a guy doesnt look good, they dont give him a second glance. And while they gave him first glance she probably thought "out of my way"
You live in a dream world if you dont know there are many girls like that.

If the guy should have muscles I'd prefer it was all roundly balanced. But not too much. Those guy who are so wide they need the side walk to them selves and they have trouble reaching to tie their shoes. Not so great.
What Im trying to say is that atletic is better and bodybuilder is definitely not good
So what you are basically saying is: if a guy does not look good he will never had a chance with a girl? I guess what i said about personality is bullcrap then.. "YES, muscles matters but not TOO much or else you'll still be considered ugly, cause remember kid, you have to be good looking if you want a girlfriend! Enjoy your life of insecurity always thinking you're not good enough, because apparently, you are!!" (that's sarcasm)

To answer your question, hockeyfan, what i find attractive physically is a great smile. But im just some dumb girl that lives in a dream world, so go for the MUSCLES thing. Too bad at 15 you can't build muscles without serious risks for your health, since you need to have completed your puberty before even thinking of adding muscle mass.

[BlackParadePixie]

I do like muscles on guys...but they aren't necessary

[Daniella98]

So what you are basically saying is: if a guy does not look good he will never had a chance with a girl? I guess what i said about personality is bullcrap then.. "YES, muscles matters but not TOO much or else you'll still be considered ugly, cause remember kid, you have to be good looking if you want a girlfriend! Enjoy your life of insecurity always thinking you're not good enough, because apparently, you are!!" (that's sarcasm)

To answer your question, hockeyfan, what i find attractive physically is a great smile. But im just some dumb girl that lives in a dream world, so go for the MUSCLES thing. Too bad at 15 you can't build muscles without serious risks for your health, since you need to have completed your puberty before even thinking of adding muscle mass.

Im not saying that if a guy doesnt look good he has no chance with anyone. What Im saying is that most girls DO take looks into account as they choose who to consider and not.
Of course his personality means a great deal. But its not the only thing.
And its not just black n white.

Just because I didnt agree with every word of yours, it doesnt mean that I dont care about personality and I go for the biggest muscle guy I can find. Come on

[Daniella98]

Am I completely shallow to pay slightly attention to guys looks after making sure their personalities are fine?
Anyone?

[SethfromMI]

Yes, but to most people, how someone looks is usually important very important too! Musceles ar hot.

your right, just like guys don't want girls with super small boobs. it does matter to some extent doesn't it ?

[hockeyfan]

Am I completely shallow to pay slightly attention to guys looks after making sure their personalities are fine?
Anyone?

It's normal for a guy to look at a girls body next or before that. So u aren't shallow for doing the same.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

This isn't puberty related. :locked: