dontfiguremeout
November 2nd, 2014, 02:21 PM
Hey everyone, so I'm noticing there's a lot of threads right now where many of you guys are losing your friends and so I'm going to write to all of you instead of commenting on each one.
First off I just want to say I'm terribly sorry that you guys are going through it. I know what it's like to lose friends/best friends and it sucks a lot. It also hurt me really badly too. Now it took me some time to get back up again and start enjoying life again and maybe finding a new friend. But it does take time! I want you guys to know that you don't have to move on right away, understand it takes time to slowly move on, so don't feel like you need to rush it.
Secondly people come and go all the time in life. I myself have come in go in many peoples lives on here too. There's really no offense to anyone I stopped talking to on here, it's just I myself who had to come and go. Anyways, there are friends who will last a life time, but there are friends who won't. It's okay to think every close friend you have will stick with you for a very very long time even though they won't. You need to have some type of hope in your friendship anyways.
Lastly everything happens for a reason! Although I went through many pains of losing friends, it took many to finally find my best friend now! I guess you just need to think positively. Know that there's a reason for your friend to leave and don't always think it's all your fault. They probably left because they weren't feeling this friendship at all so they left, which is fine. You can't have a one sided friendship at all.
So I did some brief help, but I hope you guys find some of this advice helpful! If you have any questions, feel free to ask away! I am a very good friendship helper!
First off I just want to say I'm terribly sorry that you guys are going through it. I know what it's like to lose friends/best friends and it sucks a lot. It also hurt me really badly too. Now it took me some time to get back up again and start enjoying life again and maybe finding a new friend. But it does take time! I want you guys to know that you don't have to move on right away, understand it takes time to slowly move on, so don't feel like you need to rush it.
Secondly people come and go all the time in life. I myself have come in go in many peoples lives on here too. There's really no offense to anyone I stopped talking to on here, it's just I myself who had to come and go. Anyways, there are friends who will last a life time, but there are friends who won't. It's okay to think every close friend you have will stick with you for a very very long time even though they won't. You need to have some type of hope in your friendship anyways.
Lastly everything happens for a reason! Although I went through many pains of losing friends, it took many to finally find my best friend now! I guess you just need to think positively. Know that there's a reason for your friend to leave and don't always think it's all your fault. They probably left because they weren't feeling this friendship at all so they left, which is fine. You can't have a one sided friendship at all.
So I did some brief help, but I hope you guys find some of this advice helpful! If you have any questions, feel free to ask away! I am a very good friendship helper!