Open shower

[BobManAAA]

So I live in a small sized house just me and my dad. He is now looking at putting in a open shower in our bathroom. Now me only being 14 I get random erections all the time. My dad is handicap with major nerve damage and pain and very little control over his blatter so he needs to go the the bathroom lots and he can't wait once he has to go, so there is no lock on the bathroom door. What I'm worried about is when I'm having a shower having him walk in and it being a open shower there won't be any curtains and I might have a erection for whatever reason. I have never been very open about my sexual/private life so I would find this a very embarrassing situation for me. Is this something I should be worried about? Is there anything I can really do to help with the situation?

[Your Captain]

Wait for him to pee theñ go in afterwards so you have more time. Besides due to his condition he won't give a shit where the blood is flowing around your body

[nklarke]

Are you worried because of the erections or seeing you nude?

[donkeymkong]

Either way, your father was 14 once. He won't care if you have an erection, he knows it happens sometimes. He probably won't say anything at all about it, don't worry too much

[voodoo doughnut]

just turn your back to him if you have an erection.

[Swimmer98]

Don't worry about it, he made you after all lol. He was 14 once and understands, I'm not exactly open with my dad either but I don't really care if he saw me naked. I wouldn't worry about it, and I hope your dad gets better soon

[jordanhardy]

Yeah he's be fine with it. No doubt he had them when he was your age. I know it's embarrassing but if he needs it make his life a lot easier then it's a bit of a no brainier really. I wouldn't worry about it

[sammy99]

Is not a problem, is your dad, and first is a MAN :D

[James Dean]

Don't think about it, just take your shower. Everyone is family and if he is disabled then I'm sure if an incident happens, it wasn't intentional and you shouldn't feel uncomfortable.

[Zachary G]

if your dad needs to install an open shower for medical reasons, then there isnt anything you can do about but adapt to the new situation. if your dad is coming in to pee and you a are in there, i am sure he would probably knock first to give you a heads up that he is about to come in, so that would give you time to turn your back to him while he does his business and when he is done, you can go back to your shower or whantever it was you were doing.

[SethfromMI]

try not to worry about it. I am sure he got them all the time when he was your age. most guys (like 99.99%) do. if your in that position and you are really embarrassed just try to turn with your back facing him (which in some sense gives him a little more privacy while he is going to the bathroom) . I am guessing the open shower would make it easier for your dad to use. you will get use to it and after awhile, won't even think twice about it

[jakerust]

don't worry about it, i mean he was 14 once too. even if he does walk in on you, he will probably just do his business and leave. And if he has not gave you the TALK then he could also do that. (maybe)
he will probably feel just as uncomfortable as you when he comes in.
besides you both get used to it after awhile.

[canadienudist]

if your dad needs to install an open shower for medical reasons, then there isnt anything you can do about but adapt to the new situation. if your dad is coming in to pee and you a are in there, i am sure he would probably knock first to give you a heads up that he is about to come in, so that would give you time to turn your back to him while he does his business and when he is done, you can go back to your shower or whantever it was you were doing.

Exactly right, couldn't have said it any better than that

[Hardcatch]

Dude just be natural and not make it an issue if it happens. If your only worries are having an erecton or being seen nude, think of all the problems he has and what he's going through. Trust me if he has to use the restroom while your in the shower, your the last person he is going to be paying attention to.

[CrazyPerson101]

My mom has multiple sclerosis and Transverse milieus so her nerve/motor system is shot too. I've become very open to her ( don't have a dad ) so she doesn't quite understand some things on the same level but she gets the general picture. Anyway, Think of this way, he was 14 once, he knows what you're going through, he also helped make you, he's seen you naked before so its not like its nothing he hasn't seen and It may take some getting used to but you don't have to worry :)

[football matt]

I wouldn't worry he was your age once

[JamesSuperBoy]

So I live in a small sized house just me and my dad. He is now looking at putting in a open shower in our bathroom. Now me only being 14 I get random erections all the time. My dad is handicap with major nerve damage and pain and very little control over his blatter so he needs to go the the bathroom lots and he can't wait once he has to go, so there is no lock on the bathroom door. What I'm worried about is when I'm having a shower having him walk in and it being a open shower there won't be any curtains and I might have a erection for whatever reason. I have never been very open about my sexual/private life so I would find this a very embarrassing situation for me. Is this something I should be worried about? Is there anything I can really do to help with the situation?

Its good you consider your Dad like this - well just keep a towel handy and you can step out if needs be. :yes:

[Johnking1996]

It will be fine, he has seen one before! You could just turn around when he comes in, its good you consider this though. :)

[hockeyfan]

Ur feeling are very understandable. Idk wat I'd do in that situation. It would b much easier for ur dad to shower with his problems.


My only advice to u is to wait till he just went to the bathroom or ask him to use the toilet just before u have a shower. And facing the wall might help a bit.