age difference?

[Keyboardwarrior95]

Hey, what would you guys say the Max age difference between 2 people in a sexual relationship should be in your opinion?

[JamesSuperBoy]

Hey, what would you guys say the Max age difference between 2 people in a relationship should be in your opinion?

I think it varies - age range - maturity but if two people are happy with love and respect age is just a number. Of course there are laws that vary country to country.:yes:

[kdapik]

I believe there is no exact answer to this question. It's all depend on both couples and how much they love each other.
I know a married couple and the age different between them is 10 years. But they love each other so much so they don't even care about the age difference

[Abhorrence]

It's weird because if a 20 year old and a 24 year old were in a relationship nobody would care but if it's a 16 year old and a 20 year old it's wrong. I can't really have an opinion because one of my friends is 16 and in a relationship with a 20 year old. I totally support it but I know others do not.

[shybi15]

as long as both want to then do it...

[refrigeratorx]

there is none. It does depend on maturity. at our age there is a huge variety of it. I know some 16 year olds could handle it and some could not. it depends on the person. When you really think about it though, does age really matter? all that matters is what people want. happiness

[Keyboardwarrior95]

Thanks for all replys guys, I agree with what you have all said about maturity and things. Reason I'm asking is cause my boyfriend is 2 years younger than me and people call me a pedo, yet I'm sure
Its a pretty small gap IMO! I'm in year 12 and he is in year 10 though, and that does sound a bit weird I guess!

[Zachary G]

Thanks for all replys guys, I agree with what you have all said about maturity and things. Reason I'm asking is cause my boyfriend is 2 years younger than me and people call me a pedo, yet I'm sure
Its a pretty small gap IMO! I'm in year 12 and he is in year 10 though, and that does sound a bit weird I guess!

i dont think its that weird at all, my boyfriend was 3 yrs older than me when we met, i was 12 and he was 15, and it worked out for us. nobody really said anything about the age difference because to them it really didnt matter. i dont think your a pedo, besides you wouldnt qualify as one because you are under age, too. no worries - just do you.

[SethfromMI]

well if you are plan on doing anything sexual depending on the law the age thing could cause problems. legal issues aside I think it just depends on the two people

[CrazyPerson101]

Hey, what would you guys say the Max age difference between 2 people in a sexual relationship should be in your opinion?


Hey, and It honestly depends where you live and what culture and all that. In my family, age gap isn't all that important, ( my grandpa was 23 years older than my grandma ) and my mom was married to a man 12 years older than her.

So that being said, for me, honestly, Idk. If I REALLY like the person ( or even love them ), then age isn't really a problem for me. I mean, I'm not saying that I'll just go out and go with any person, but on the same token, I don't see age gaps as a problem.

I would date a guy who's older than me, I'm dating one who's 17 ( i'm 15 ) so I mean, it's not to bad an age gap. MAX, I'd probably date someone ( within reason ) 3 years older than me now, MAYBE ( this would take alot of bending and all that ) 4 years but that's for now ( as I am still under age ).

[riverboy]

there is none. It does depend on maturity. at our age there is a huge variety of it. I know some 16 year olds could handle it and some could not. it depends on the person. When you really think about it though, does age really matter? all that matters is what people want. happiness

I don't think that makes you a pedo unless the guy is like 12. Another way to think about is would you date some one 18?

[Tri3tan]

Honestly depends with age but I think it becomes wider when you get older

[Keyboardwarrior95]

Honestly depends with age but I think it becomes wider when you get older

Yeah I gotta agree with you dude :)

[riverboy]

Honestly depends with age but I think it becomes wider when you get older

right

[Your Captain]

A out a 2 year range until both are near 20 and it can start to spread

[AceofSpades97]

I would only take like a range of 2 years. I only would cross 3 years if I really really would love a guy and he would really love me. But mostly I stick with 2 years range.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

Fits here c:

[Lost in the Echo]

During teen years, I'd say 3 should be the max. 4-5+ would be creepy imo.

[Desuetude]

Thanks for all replys guys, I agree with what you have all said about maturity and things. Reason I'm asking is cause my boyfriend is 2 years younger than me and people call me a pedo, yet I'm sure
Its a pretty small gap IMO! I'm in year 12 and he is in year 10 though, and that does sound a bit weird I guess!

In the UK the legal age is 16 so TECHNICALLY if you are having sex with your 14 year old boyfriend then it is considered rape even if he has consented to it.

I know its stupid and shit but its the law. I'm not saying break up with him but just, y'know, be careful. Its not likely that anything will happen, police have more important things to do than tracking 'supposed' rape crimes but yeah it is still illegal.

Personally year 12 and year 10 is kind of a big age gap for me to be thinking about. This kid was going out with year 9s when we were in year 11 and everyone thought that was creepy as hell. When you're both in college or you go to uni then really its normal but if you two are happy then fuck what other people think.

[dontfiguremeout]

Well really depends on the time the couple is dating. Of course 16 dating 20 year old is a huge difference because socially we accepted that 16 year old still is maturing and is still young as a 20 year old is young, but 20 year old is pretty much matured, plus socially we say 18 is an adult, so you have 16 child and 20 adult which is then not socially okay until the 16 year old matures into an adult. So that's why we don't care much if it's 20 and 24 because we view them as adults while 16 and 20 you have one child and one adult.

[James Dean]

Me personally, I wouldn't date someone more than four years older than me. So I think four years for younger people is okay.

[kay_jay]

I think it varies - age range - maturity but if two people are happy with love and respect age is just a number. Of course there are laws that vary country to country.:yes:

Couldn't have said it better myself.

[ThePhantasm]

Age is just a number, it doesn't really matter the age difference.