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Mates5inch
October 29th, 2014, 03:24 AM
Recently I've been round friends houses for sleepovers a lot, I'd say nearly every second week. I've been to this girls house twice and I've shared a bed with her both times, we both slept naked but here's my problem - whenever I go to sleep I grab my dick/balls and sleep like it. Anyone else do this or is it just me? Starts to get on my nerves!

Catholic Guy
October 29th, 2014, 04:37 AM
Is there anything happening between the two of you? I don't but that doesn't sound like that much of a problem to me. Good to see another person from England though!

richie909
October 29th, 2014, 04:52 AM
You should let her grab it instead

Abhorrence
October 29th, 2014, 06:49 AM
I've never really heard of that happening.

Zachary G
October 29th, 2014, 08:28 AM
Recently I've been round friends houses for sleepovers a lot, I'd say nearly every second week. I've been to this girls house twice and I've shared a bed with her both times, we both slept naked but here's my problem - whenever I go to sleep I grab my dick/balls and sleep like it. Anyone else do this or is it just me? Starts to get on my nerves!

it sounds like you grab yourself as a way to comfort yourself, like feeling safe or something, but there is nothing wrong with it and nothing wrong with you for doing it. its probably something you have been doing since you were young, so the only way to get out of doing it is to consciously make sure you keep your hands away from your junk when you start to goto sleep, but its going to be difficult -- you can do it if you really try and or want to

Whiskers
October 29th, 2014, 09:13 AM
I agree with the guy above me could just be a comforting method so not really a problem unless you really hate doing it

jordanhardy
October 29th, 2014, 11:45 AM
It may be a comforting thing if you haven't seen each other naked before. Me and my friends both male and female have seen each other naked loads of times so it doesn't bother me much anymore. At first I would always end up with a boner

JamesSuperBoy
October 29th, 2014, 11:48 AM
Just a habit perhaps but as you are sleeping you dont know -

SethfromMI
October 29th, 2014, 02:44 PM
it sounds like you grab yourself as a way to comfort yourself, like feeling safe or something, but there is nothing wrong with it and nothing wrong with you for doing it. its probably something you have been doing since you were young, so the only way to get out of doing it is to consciously make sure you keep your hands away from your junk when you start to goto sleep, but its going to be difficult -- you can do it if you really try and or want to

this. and if you are sleeping naked with her...not that you have to do anything, but see if she wants to have some fun

of course unless you do not have that type of relationship and it is just a mutual going to sleep together naked that's it. def discuss before you do haha

Your Captain
October 29th, 2014, 09:06 PM
Why don't you grab her hand and put it on your duick and balls.
This would be her thoughts if she saw your hand on your crotch: not surprised he likes cock because he is gay, I know this because he hasn't tried anything with me even though we are in the same bed naked.
But in all seriousness don't worry because she would probably think that your hand just fell onto the area.
Also I was not joking about the first but, why have you not done anything with her yet

Reagan Smash Bros
October 30th, 2014, 11:21 PM
I think it's normal, for I do it as well. I have no reason behind it besides the fact that I've always done it. Hope this helps.

hockeyfan
November 1st, 2014, 02:26 PM
You should let her grab it instead

Yeah. If that isn't already happening.

poiuytrewq
November 7th, 2014, 06:31 PM
She probably wouldn't think anything of it