This is the ending of a friendship...

[earl_hun]

Hello all, and thanks for reading!

I've met my friend a few months ago. Let's call him Victor (because that's his name). We quickly befriended, we had the same music and car taste and well-almost the same problems. We done together a "community job", and after that we've talked only on Viber/Fb. After several cancelled meets, we agreed that WE. GONNA. MEET. in the autumn break. Which is during now. But he disappeared. He sees my messages, but doesn't reply to them.

Am I overreacting, or I'm right to get enough?
Thank you for all of the answers!

[SethfromMI]

even if he is busy, if he has enough time to check facebook he has enough time to give you an explanation. I would still try talking to him to see whats up but if he keeps ignoring you then I wouldn't bother after a while

[Uranus]

I'm not sure. If he didn't want to talk he probably would've blocked your messages and not read them. You haven't met, so you don't know if something is going on there. He could be extremely busy, or depressed and doesn't feel like talking. Who knows? Give it a few days and see what happens. Besides, you didn't tell us the last time you and him talked.

[queenofcontrariety]

His situation right now might not allow it and he doesn't want to own up to disappointing you. I mean unless you got into a fight or have been distant for a while I can't think of too many other reasons why he'd read and not reply other than being super busy

[SethfromMI]

whoops I thought you did meet in person already. yea there can be so many factors, just give it some time and keep trying. I mean after awhile, it still might be time to call it quits, but give it some more time

[dontfiguremeout]

Let me tell you one thing, most online friendships aren't going to last. I've tried to make friends online and we got really close and then it failed because they completely stopped messaging me. The best friendships are made in person. But don't go looking for them, just let them happen. The moment I didn't think about finding a best friend, I ended up getting one. My best friend doesn't have a phone, so we had to make it in person which now he's the closest person to me because I'm able to talk to him about anything and everything in person and not be scared or uncomfortable. Anyways, point is, online friendships aren't the best because they are the easiest to end since you aren't really talking to them in person, just seeing words on a screen.

[earl_hun]

I will reply to all of you in one post! :)

We've met in person a few times-while we had the same place to work-.

I don't think that a guy who posts party pics, and says had a good day with x and y is depressed. And I'm angry because he always arranges meeting with others, only I have this "honor"...

[James Dean]

Oh, this is very confusing. You might not like this, but it seems like he is being kinda two faced. It would be best to leave him alone for right now to see how it goes. I do wish you the best though and hope everything goes well for you. :)

[earl_hun]

Thanks :)