Did I lose my virginity?

[everlong]

I'll try to keep this short, but me and my close friend (Male) have been close for years now, and starting a little over a year ago, we got close sexually. Not like we date or anything, but anything sexual we want to admit or some small experimental thing, we turn to each other. It's just our thing I guess. Being curious dumb guys.

All we've really done as of now is give each other handjobs, until recently. My friend wanted to know what it was like to stick his dick in my butt. Not like full on sex, but stick it in once, take it out, done. When the event happened, we went as far as putting his dick halfway in my butt, taking it out, and calling it over.

Basically I guess my main question is whether or not I lost my virginity. I guess I don't know the exact way to lose it. I wasn't intending to lose it, but I'm also not avoiding it. Did I lose it? How exactly do you lose your virginity?

Also, I don't know if I put in too much explicit info, and I'm sorry if I did.

Did I lose my virginity?

[Abhorrence]

I'd say you didn't. I mean like, to lose your virginity you have to have sex and that's not really sex. Although virginity for males is kind of a mental thing rather than a physical thing because obviously we don't have a hymen.

[Whiskers]

Well I would say yes because penetration did occur but even though it wasn't actually conventional sex I would say your no longer a virgin

[SethfromMI]

^ I agree. you lost it on a technicality on my book.

but I guess it depends on your definition.

[ugaboy]

Well, I would say NO. Me and my best friend have done the same thing. We have talked about it, and still consider ourselves virgins. I guess we are waiting until someone cums to think it is different.

[Skitty]

I have been in a similar scenario for a few years XD By Google's definition, technically yes. However in the end it's really up to you.

[Catholic Guy]

I would say yes you have but it's something you really need to talk about with your friend to make sure you are on the same page and to see if you both think ypu did or not

[richie909]

I would say yes u have, u lost it to your mates bum :)

[green white]

i think did't
because you just have 1 virginity and i think you must give your wife (in tomorrow) your virginity

[sebastianb]

I think you did loose it cause penetration occured

[Zachary G]

its a very good question, but i see it as a yes and a no, but i do agree that its totally up to you to decide if you did or you didnt.

[SethfromMI]

i think did't
because you just have 1 virginity and i think you must give your wife (in tomorrow) your virginity

even if you think you should, if there is penetration that is considered sex and he lost it

[DeadEyes]

even if you think you should, if there is penetration that is considered sex and he lost it

Right, HE lost it.

its a very good question, but i see it as a yes and a no, but i do agree that its totally up to you to decide if you did or you didnt.

I believe as long as you didn't use your own sexual organ to have sex, oral or anal, you're still a virgin.

[green white]

i think we life in different culture. In my country sex before married is prohibited.

[CrazyPerson101]

Honestly, the technical thing is : If there was penetration, then yes you have. It may've not been actual conventional sex but you did. Most people say : Oh, you haven't, you can only lose it to the opposite sex "( Guy and a Girl basically ).... TRYING NOT TO BE GRAPHIC Well, you can anally penetrate the opposite sex too. That being said, you technically aren't a virgin. It's harder for males to really know if they've lost their virginity because ( as someone has said ), we don't physically change ( unlike girls who do ) and for us guys, its more mental than physical. Anyway, Hope this helps

[KoolKid96]

For me as long as penetration occurs u lost ur virginity

[Your Captain]

You lost your anal virginit, nothing else. Your friend lost nothing.
To lose your normal virginkty you need to insert your penis into a girls vagina

[hockeyfan]

R u str8 or gay?

I'd say ur a virgin.

[ethana512]

its a very good question, but i see it as a yes and a no, but i do agree that its totally up to you to decide if you did or you didnt.

I agree with this. I mean no one will know unless you tell them so basically it's just your opinion what to say.

[torcon4421]

its a you thing. if i were you, i would say no you did not loose your virginity

[SuperVictor]

That depends. Did it feel amazing and was it the best orgasm ever ?

[Cloud_Strife]

I'll try to keep this short, but me and my close friend (Male) have been close for years now, and starting a little over a year ago, we got close sexually. Not like we date or anything, but anything sexual we want to admit or some small experimental thing, we turn to each other. It's just our thing I guess. Being curious dumb guys.

All we've really done as of now is give each other handjobs, until recently. My friend wanted to know what it was like to stick his dick in my butt. Not like full on sex, but stick it in once, take it out, done. When the event happened, we went as far as putting his dick halfway in my butt, taking it out, and calling it over.

Basically I guess my main question is whether or not I lost my virginity. I guess I don't know the exact way to lose it. I wasn't intending to lose it, but I'm also not avoiding it. Did I lose it? How exactly do you lose your virginity?

Also, I don't know if I put in too much explicit info, and I'm sorry if I did.

Did I lose my virginity?

I'd say that losing one's virginity occurs after intercourse. The next question is what you'd define as that - vaginal, anal or oral, etc. Some people would consider any or all of those as intercourse and hence that one would not be a virgin afterwards. Others would probably lean more towards penetrative intercourse as being the cause for loss of virginity, which happened in the scenario you mentioned. The definition will differ for different people - lesbians would not have the same intercourse as homosexual men, as an example.

Being males, I agree with Catholic Guy and CrazyPerson101, that you did indeed lose your virginity in this instance - probably from the aspect of it being invasive, penetrative sex.

I would say yes you have but it's something you really need to talk about with your friend to make sure you are on the same page and to see if you both think ypu did or not

Honestly, the technical thing is : If there was penetration, then yes you have. It may've not been actual conventional sex but you did. Most people say : Oh, you haven't, you can only lose it to the opposite sex "( Guy and a Girl basically ).... TRYING NOT TO BE GRAPHIC Well, you can anally penetrate the opposite sex too. That being said, you technically aren't a virgin. It's harder for males to really know if they've lost their virginity because ( as someone has said ), we don't physically change ( unlike girls who do ) and for us guys, its more mental than physical. Anyway, Hope this helps

[pconnor2001]

It is your own business.

[Jaseblader]

its up to you it has a personal definition that only you can define in my opinion yes

[EddieHoward96]

To me, as someone who has had sex, i would say no. I don't see that as you losing your virginity. I think it needs to be proper penetration until completion (ejaculation) before it can be considered losing your virginity. That's just my opinion, i may be wrong, but that's how i see it anyway.

[Typhlosion]

Well, it's no longer brand-new, so tospeak...

[Indio]

I think you did loose it cause penetration occured

Yeah I agree with what you have said.

[boytoynamedtroy]

I'll try to keep this short, but me and my close friend (Male) have been close for years now, and starting a little over a year ago, we got close sexually. Not like we date or anything, but anything sexual we want to admit or some small experimental thing, we turn to each other. It's just our thing I guess. Being curious dumb guys.

All we've really done as of now is give each other handjobs, until recently. My friend wanted to know what it was like to stick his dick in my butt. Not like full on sex, but stick it in once, take it out, done. When the event happened, we went as far as putting his dick halfway in my butt, taking it out, and calling it over.

Basically I guess my main question is whether or not I lost my virginity. I guess I don't know the exact way to lose it. I wasn't intending to lose it, but I'm also not avoiding it. Did I lose it? How exactly do you lose your virginity?

Also, I don't know if I put in too much explicit info, and I'm sorry if I did.

Did I lose my virginity?

In my opinion (and this is just my opinion), I'd say you did lose your virginity. It's just like when you're stroking your penis, then you stop after a few strokes; technically you did still masturbate. I hope you get it.