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thatbox
October 28th, 2014, 12:55 PM
Well, I'm 15 and I well... have been attracted to guys for like 2 years now. BUT I DON't WANT TO BE! I want to get a girlfriend and be attracted to women, but whenever I try to watch straight porn I always seem to be focusing on the guys more. Please help, I know it sounds homophobic but I'm totally against that so please don't say I am a homophobe!

Thanks!
Whiskers
October 28th, 2014, 01:13 PM
Well honestly if your gay your gay but if you feel so strongly against it (note I don't recommend this) but some places have "straight camps" to try and convince you to be straight. again I don't recommend it but your choice
Luminous
October 28th, 2014, 01:19 PM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender
Verminicious Knid
October 28th, 2014, 01:24 PM
Well...I suppose with time you can try and accept yourself for who you are.

But as said above, there is the option of straight camps. But I'm really skeptical on whether or not they actually work.

Embrace yourself for who you are! There's nothing wrong with being gay!
Karkat
October 28th, 2014, 02:16 PM
Do you experience any sexual attraction to women at all? Why do you want to be with a woman?

I mean, it could be that you're bisexual and just going through some confusion, or it could be that you're gay...And if you are, the best thing is to come to terms with it.
SethfromMI
October 28th, 2014, 09:45 PM
Do you experience any sexual attraction to women at all? Why do you want to be with a woman?

I mean, it could be that you're bisexual and just going through some confusion, or it could be that you're gay...And if you are, the best thing is to come to terms with it.

this. time will tell, but give it some more time. no shame either way
Wyatt 13
October 31st, 2014, 02:59 PM
Dude don't sweat to much labeling yourself give it some time
ethana512
November 1st, 2014, 07:03 AM
You like what you like. I mean its like if you like PS and all your friends like Xbox do you feel bad about it? I know gay people get treated shitty sometimes but its getting better. I think by the time we are 30 or 40 it won't even be a big deal.
TheLoneWolf
November 1st, 2014, 07:06 AM
It gets better. If you start accepting yourself right now, it'll start feeling better.
You can not change your sexual orientation.

I've got some advice for you though:
1. Read this: http://thoughtcatalog.com/ryan-oconnell/2012/07/so-you-want-to-be-gay/
2. Listen to this, it'll chear you up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0VG1bj4Lj1Q
DeadEyes
November 1st, 2014, 11:27 AM
You like what you like. I mean its like if you like PS and all your friends like Xbox do you feel bad about it? I know gay people get treated shitty sometimes but its getting better. I think by the time we are 30 or 40 it won't even be a big deal.

Nice video games analogy there, I never thought of that one. I can't say I'm that optimistic about it though, racism and homophia will always be around.
CrazyPerson101
November 3rd, 2014, 12:50 AM
Well, I'm 15 and I well... have been attracted to guys for like 2 years now. BUT I DON't WANT TO BE! I want to get a girlfriend and be attracted to women, but whenever I try to watch straight porn I always seem to be focusing on the guys more. Please help, I know it sounds homophobic but I'm totally against that so please don't say I am a homophobe!

Thanks!

You really can't change your sexuality, if you're into guys, you're into guys. The sooner you accept that, the easier it'll be for you. Idk how to explain it any other way.
Semi_IronMan
November 9th, 2014, 03:25 PM
I'm not sure you can force yourself to be attracted to females, if you like guys you like guys. Embrace it and learn to love and accept yourself
CosmicNoodle
November 9th, 2014, 03:30 PM
You really can't change your sexuality, if you're into guys, you're into guys. The sooner you accept that, the easier it'll be for you. Idk how to explain it any other way.

Exactly, if your gay your gay, and you have to live with it, for years I hated being the sexuality I am, it sacred me, but after a while I became OK with it, then started to like it, then embraced it, then loved it.

After a while you'll be comfortable with who you are,
Jaseblader
November 9th, 2014, 07:26 PM
Well, I'm 15 and I well... have been attracted to guys for like 2 years now. BUT I DON't WANT TO BE! I want to get a girlfriend and be attracted to women, but whenever I try to watch straight porn I always seem to be focusing on the guys more. Please help, I know it sounds homophobic but I'm totally against that so please don't say I am a homophobe!

Thanks!

Your definitely not homophobic and you are gay but you don't want to be its simple like that, some people are gay but don't want to be for any reason