Am i the only one

[Whiskers]

Okay I'm 14 and I am an outcast at my school because all the perverted teens in my school are only interested in "slutty" fit girls so they decided I'm weird because I don't just want to date someone so I can brag about it I want someone to spend my life with and I've also been in love with this girl for the past 3 years but I feel like if I ask her out while we're young it'll end for some stupid reason and I'll end up alone so am I the only one who doesn't want a girlfriend or boyfriend but wants a life partner

[Amy123]

Some people feel that way but if. You are young enjoy yourself atm

[SethfromMI]

well most people at 14 are not usually looking for life partners but you are not alone. there is a lot of people who don't want to date just anybody just to say they are dating. in fact, it is very commendable you are thinking that far down the road. nothing wrong with you, just again understand most people at 14 are not looking for who they are going to marry (though it happens)

[Country Cowboy]

I feel the exact same way as you do! I'm only 14 and I'm already looking for a life partner and I'm in love with one of my friends but I don't want to ask her out because I don't something stupid ending it. My friends don't get it. They think that if I like someone, I should ask them out but I won't do it because I don't think a relationship made this young would last till marriage. I know how you feel.

[James Dean]

No I don't like school relationships either. They don't ever really work out, and it's not really love. It's just experimenting and just trying to be more than just friends. You should be okay, you have the right approach. Just wait until later to find someone as right now it might cause trouble to force yourself to like someone just because all your friends are.