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Iamsolost
October 27th, 2014, 05:18 PM
Hi all, I am having mixed signals from this girl I know. She lives in my neighborhood, likes the same music as me, is super cute, a cheerleader (not stereotypical kind), sweet. One friday during a pep rally she and a bunch of other cheerleaders made a mistake that was super embarrassing. She came on the bus, wasn't paying attention (I think she wasn't, not sure), but she sat on my leg, and I moved, I said something along the lines of, you sat on my leg (jokingly). I then saw she was really upset and crying a bit (not making it obvious she was), i asked if she was okay and she said yeah, i'm just hot. I said oh ok, knowing what was up, I didn't want to mention it because I didn't want to embarrass her on the bus (everyone was watching of course it is a big gym and not everyone could see their faces in less they really tried). She then a few mins later laid on my shoulder, I let her without any comment or face because again I didn't want to embarrass her. Then a few mins later she got up and asked to see my hand, I said sure with a smile, she wrote "Swerve (with two hands clapping), and then a -NAMEHERE. Which in urban dictionary is "get out of my way, leave me alone", etc. Today on the bus she saw another girl who asked me out last year (they are friends somewhat) she rolled her eyes (seconds after she saw the other girl who likes me sitting next to me), and sat in front of me. She turned around with a smile and offered me a pretzel, I politely refused, she proceeded to kind of try to make me eat it flirtatiously, and then left it on my bag, she gave my friend sitting next to her one and I was jokingly saying, hey dude want this pretzel, and he snatched it from me jokingly, she then kept talking to me. After that she said who's that guy, I told her his name, she said he has cute eyes, then turned around, she started talking to me, I smiled and gazed at her and she said you do too (telling me I have pretty eyes??????)? I am so lost as you guys might be able to tell??? What should I do to make this work out well? I like her a lot. Should I go talk to her at the bus stop in the morning? Thanks guys for all the help! I appreciate it a lot! :)

P.S I kept looking at her with a really genuine smile, making it kind of obvious to her that I thought she was absolutely gorgeous. She kept looking at me, consistently, making excuses to talk to the girl next to me so she could see me (I think that is why because she kept looking over at me), She was getting blinded by the light (PUN, GREAT PUN, blinded by the light, manfred mann's earth band). So she kept saying I can't see and closing her eyes, when she could turn around and it be at the back of her head, she kept her head pointed towards me, her eyes squinted closed so she couldn't be bothered by the sun.

I have had many of my old GF's who I am still best friends with all of them say they really love my character and all called me chivalrous and a great guy, and any girl would be lucky to have me, they all say that. I just want to get to hang out with her one time so I can get to know her better and her get to know me better but I don't have her # and she doesn't have a FB?? It would be really weird just to show up at her door asking if she wanted to come outside and stand the risk of being shotdown :). Thank you!

Whiskers
October 27th, 2014, 06:06 PM
Honestly with mixed signals it's hard to tell but it sounds positive it sounds like she does like you so all I can say is good luck

Amy123
October 27th, 2014, 06:07 PM
Yeah proberly

Iamsolost
October 27th, 2014, 06:37 PM
So how would you guys recommend I proceed? I think I will go start talking to her in the morning, and get her phone #. :) Thanks again.

SethfromMI
October 27th, 2014, 06:40 PM
go for it man

UnknownError
October 27th, 2014, 08:30 PM
I don't really see many mixed signals from your post. The only one I can see that would be is the "After that she said who's that guy, I told her his name, she said he has cute eyes, then turned around" but she's just fucking around with you and trying to make you a little jealous, cause that's what girls do. From what you've told us it seems pretty clear that she likes you.

Iamsolost
October 27th, 2014, 08:40 PM
Connor, Seth, Amy, Whiskers, thank you all so much! I see now I am being an idiot and I need to take action fast! I am going to get closer to her, get her #, take her roller skating (I do jam skating and can do a good amount of footwork tricks and breakdancing moves, great skill to show off humbly (I don't want to seem like a show off)). My last question is does anyone know a way i can find an excuse to play her a song on my guitar? Thanks :)

UnknownError
October 28th, 2014, 04:38 PM
Connor, Seth, Amy, Whiskers, thank you all so much! I see now I am being an idiot and I need to take action fast! I am going to get closer to her, get her #, take her roller skating (I do jam skating and can do a good amount of footwork tricks and breakdancing moves, great skill to show off humbly (I don't want to seem like a show off)). My last question is does anyone know a way i can find an excuse to play her a song on my guitar? Thanks :)

Good luck! And as for the guitar thing, the only way I can think of it being casual is invite her over after/if you go out for the first time and have your guitar on your bed, when you go to move it she'll probably say something like "I didn't know you played guitar" and then you can be like "Yeah, want me to play something?" That's my idea anyway haha.