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nascar_alex
October 27th, 2014, 03:41 PM
So I have never had been good at making friends and have like none. So last year there was this guy and he was in all my classes and we ended up going to the same clubs so after never talking before in our lives in like a week we became best friends. After a few months let's say friend 2 came into the picture. I never liked him but became "friends" with him because he lived in the neighborhood and I didn't like sitting alone on the bus. Our sisters were both in the same grade so we sat in back during one of their "musicals". I text my friend 1 who were both close friends with and he doesn't reply for a while. I ask him why he was out from school and stuff because was and he wouldn't really answer me and stuff. Then friend 2 texts him and he immediately replies. He asks why he was out and immediately replies. So I say laughing I guess he hates me lol and friend 2 dead serious with no joking or sarcasm says I know he does so much. So I stopped being friends with him. I ignored him and he never knew why. Then the last day of school on the way home were signing yearbooks and I see his name in it and I'm like oh I didn't get him I hate him and he is like why. And I say because he doesn't want to be friends. He ignores me and hates me. So he said really. For the past 2 weeks he's been mad and wondering why you hate him. I wanted to punch friend 2 because he lied and stuff. I texted once in August and not since. We don't say hi in the halls anymore and ignore each other. We don't see eachother anymore and don't have classes together anymore. I don't know what to do. I sit alone at lunch now and don't have any friends. Any tips. Sorry for it being so long and thank you if you actually read the whole thing.

queenofcontrariety
October 27th, 2014, 03:56 PM
That's hella rough, I mean it's hard to kind of change where you stand in the big scheme of the social hierarchy, my best advice is just reach out again, worst that'll happen is you'll get ignored but it's something that's happened before so you know how to deal with that. Being the first to reach out is always terrifying but you'll never get anywhere if you dont.