How to ask out a shy girl?

[clueless_one]

I like this girl and want to ask her out. She is shy and i'm wondering how can I try to ask her out. I usually just go ahead, say how I feel and ask them out, so I don't have to worry about anything else. Even then if I am asking her out it means I like her, so telling her I like her shouldn't hurt. Also, its extremely hard to try to get her on her own to tell her (she is always with other girls), and I will feel awkward telling her that I want to tell her something alone in front of others.

If you say ask her to meet in a group. She goes to a group event which I go to. She is usually around a lot of girls and talks to other guys properly except me. But whenever talking to others, always tries to give me looks/glances (which I have noticed). She stands really close to me, her torso faces me. So there are signs which to me tell she seems interested but is shy. I also asked her to meet away from the group event with some friends from the group and she didn't say yes or no, just asked for a date.

So, how will I ask her out? Tell her I like her and ask her out, which is what I feel comfortable doing or do something else. Remember, she goes to a group event I go to, looks at me a lot and stands close to me and answers all my questions (seems attentive/interested in what I say).

[Daniella98]

If you are used to just go ahead it shouldnt bother you to ask her for a private moment in front of her group.
You could slip her a mystirious and romantic note asking to meet you (time and place) maybe thats a little old fashioned, but it might work.
Maybe you should just open up some more to her. Sounds like she has no trouble talking to other guys but you.

Good luck

[Croconaw]

If she likes you, and she clearly does, then you should have no problem just asking her out. I've seen you repeatedly post questions about the same exact girl, and the answer will always be the same. You can choose to follow our advice, or you can choose to ignore it. We're really only trying to help.

[clueless_one]

If she likes you, and she clearly does, then you should have no problem just asking her out. I've seen you repeatedly post questions about the same exact girl, and the answer will always be the same. You can choose to follow our advice, or you can choose to ignore it. We're really only trying to help.

Ask her out. I can't just ask her out. I can only tell her I like her and ask her out. But it always seems girls get scared off when I do that, either that or I look like a monster. But it's the only way I feel comfortable in asking a girl out. But I don't want to risk it happening again. :cry:

[Uranus]

First you need a little bit more confidence. Don't be worried about asking her to talk in private when she's around other girls. If she's constantly looking at you,(even though she probably wants to talk to you but she's shy. Just go talk to her like normal. Don't worry. Be confident

[clueless_one]

First you need a little bit more confidence. Don't be worried about asking her to talk in private when she's around other girls. If she's constantly looking at you,(even though she probably wants to talk to you but she's shy. Just go talk to her like normal. Don't worry. Be confident

But won't that make her extremely nervous to even answer me truthfully. It's happened previously.

[James Dean]

Oh, then hope for the best this time around. Just as friends, ask to go hang out sometime to where the both of you could be alone.

[clueless_one]

Oh, then hope for the best this time around. Just as friends, ask to go hang out sometime to where the both of you could be alone.

Why the hell is everyone telling me to go out with her as friends. I give up. I cant ask a girl as friends. It's too long to wait and in that time someone else can go with her. I give up!!! If everyone thinks it's more right to ask her to meet as a friend then it's too hard overall for me to get a girlfriend. It will never happen because, telling a girl I like her and asking her out. I give up, this is too hard! I'll be alone forever.