Has he lost his interest on me? Why is he acting like this and what should i do?

[Blonde]

This guy and I have been texting for 3 months (we dont know each other in person), we get along really good, understand each other... He has always been a cold person (he is quite shy and not really self-confident, and we are from different countries, i think here we are more "closer" than there). I have met a lot of people online but i always the persons i was texting to ended bothering me. This guy doesn't. Since 2 weeks ago I don't know if its me that i think this but he seems to be a lot colder, he doesn't text me quickly at all, never first (The lasst time we spoke was on Friday, and im waiting him to text first). So I think he doesn't care.
I changed my profile pic, it wasn't a good thing. He seemed interested and asked me if i was okay and stuff. In this way i think he cares but.. i dont think so.

Im afraid of that in the same way I got tired of the people i texted before, he is now tired of me...

[Wyatt 13]

Oh well give it some time, you don't know whats going on in his real life right now.

[JamesSuperBoy]

If you are waiting for him - is that some kind of stand off.

[Melodic]

Instead of guessing why, talk to him about it.

[SethfromMI]

he could just be busy. I got some medical down time right now, but during most weekends I usually keep semi-busy.

the only way you can find out is to simply ask. we can speculate all day. just approach it in a respectful way

[Zachary G]

LDRs are really something that requires a lot of work and commitment on both parts. if one of you isnt interested and becomes distant then the whole thing falls apart. another thing to think about it, you have never really met this person so you really dont know anything about them. even though they may have synced with you through texting or online, doesnt mean thats who that person really is. anyone can play charming through texting and online. im just sayin

[queenofcontrariety]

Honestly he probably has something going on in his life, and just because you've been texting for that long does not mean you are an actual thing. As much as we all like to believe we're priorities in the lives of others, most of the time we aren't. I hate being the harsh one but I just went through a similar thing only it was a lot longer of a thing. This could be a moment for me to preach about the importance of being self reliant, but just always take texting situations with a grain of salt because you never truly know where they stand.