Brokenhearted, confused and in need of a little advice

[june3000]

Me and my boyfriend had been together for 5 months and we never had any disagreements or fights. We where really good about talking to each other if there was ever a problem. Last week I had been absent for thursday/friday and when I saw him on saturday he broke up with me. When I asked him why he said that his feelings had changed and he just didn't think of me that way any more. I was really stunned because about a month before this he told me that his feelings didn't change very quickly. I was thinking about this and remembered that on the Wednesday before i had been absent we were saying goodbye to each other after school and he said that he loved me. I didn't really think that this was out of the ordinary since this wasn't the first time he had said this. As I said earlier i was absent for the thursday/friday after that. One of his friends told me that on friday he had suddenly gone from his usual happy self to really sad. I think that his family is also having some issues if that could have anything to do with this. This is also the first time either of us have dated anyone so I have absolutely no clue what all this is about or what to do. and I know that its a bit early to be thinking this but do you think that its possible that we might be able to get back together? Also whenever I see him in the halls or at lunch he gives me a really sad look and he has been avoiding me so yeah...

any advice helps

Thank you and sorry for ranting

[sieg]

well june, it seems like you've encountered a bad apple. Some guys change their mind very quickly and say things they dont mean at all! It's sad when you meet someone like this, but in this case i think moving on would be the wisest choice, it'll be hard but you have to believe in yourself. I hope I helped you.

[Karkat]

I feel like he's probably got some serious issues going on in his personal life at the moment. You've got two options here. You can:

-Avoid him for a little while, give him some space. See if he feels different after some time has passed.
-Try to see if he needs someone. Ask him what's wrong. Try to be there for him.

Of course, in the end, it might be best to get over him, but if you really like this guy, I don't see any harm in trying either of the above.