View Full Version : What HAVE You Identified As?
TheN3rdyOutcast
October 22nd, 2014, 09:10 PM
I don't know about all of you, but in the quest to find out what my sexual orientation truly was, I misidentified myself as many other things along the way. At first, I thought I was simply asexual, but once the hormones kicked in, I thought I was bi because I "liked the way girls smell" (please don't misconstrue that phrase). Once I figured out that I was attracted to males and only males, I identified myself as gay.
My question: What have you misidentified yourself as, in the process of coming out to yourself?
voodoo doughnut
October 22nd, 2014, 09:15 PM
i'm pretty certain i'm straight. but also curious for now.
SethfromMI
October 22nd, 2014, 09:18 PM
bi sexual. I have and enjoyed intercourse with both sexes though I see more girls than boys.
Hideous
October 22nd, 2014, 09:19 PM
I misidentified myself as bisexual, but I'm gay.
Luminous
October 22nd, 2014, 09:20 PM
Bisexual, but only for a few weeks while I was still trying to understand it was actually possible for a girl to be gay :p I was young, about 11 I think.
Babs
October 22nd, 2014, 09:21 PM
Straight, bi, pan, queer, and gay. I'm like, 80% gay I guess. I'm still deciding on a label I feel comfortable with.
Karkat
October 22nd, 2014, 09:25 PM
Straight, aaaaaaand other than that, I'd say everything else is accurate to some extent or another. Lol.
Gigablue
October 22nd, 2014, 09:50 PM
Straight. I knew I wasn't gay of bi, since I wasn't attracted to guys, but until recently I never really though much about the fact that I'm not attracted to girls either. Once I heard about asexuality, though, I knew fairly quickly that it was the best way to describe myself.
Elysium
October 22nd, 2014, 10:58 PM
Mostly, something that consists of a shrug and/or some accompanying noncommittal sound or gesture. I dismissed my sexuality as straight for a while simply because I never bothered to care or explore it. As soon as I did, I decided not to use a label and it's been that way since. If anything, the appropriate label would be "queer" but I've never tried to settle on just one or two words to define me.
CrazyPerson101
October 23rd, 2014, 02:23 AM
I'm Bi, I've known I'm bi ( well confirmed it ) when I was 12, I thought I was str8 before then
James Dean
October 23rd, 2014, 05:22 AM
I did, and still continue to identify myself as Gay/Bisexual. I like everyone, even though I have the most attraction to guys. I like girls, transgendered people, and sometimes you have to label yourself when you don't want to. That's how life is.
Skitty
October 24th, 2014, 08:41 PM
I've gone through Straight, Pan, Bi, Gay, probably one or two of the minor ones as well. Right now I stick with Gay and it works for me :3
CosmicNoodle
October 24th, 2014, 08:46 PM
For me it went
1: Straight
2: Bisexual
3: Gay
4:Bisexual
Abyssal Echo
October 24th, 2014, 10:03 PM
Gay :D
Wyatt 13
October 25th, 2014, 06:12 AM
I am gay TOP tho.
Curious.
October 25th, 2014, 07:59 AM
Bi here
CassnovA
October 25th, 2014, 11:51 AM
Swaggot
Cognizant
October 25th, 2014, 12:02 PM
Straight --> bisexual --> gay --> pansexual --> bisexual --> unsure :P but I think I'm bi
DeadEyes
October 25th, 2014, 03:09 PM
I never misidentified myself, I always knew I am bi but more into guys.
Dalcourt
October 25th, 2014, 11:40 PM
I thought some brief period I was bi...but well I'm not.
Matty-UK
October 26th, 2014, 08:54 AM
I'm gay and proud of who I am :-)
Daniella98
October 26th, 2014, 05:31 PM
I thought I was straight untill my friends started to develop curvy shapes and their way of moving started to become more feminine. Now Im definitely bi.
Babiole
October 26th, 2014, 06:37 PM
Straight. Always.
Calliope
October 26th, 2014, 06:57 PM
I've identified as straight, bisexual, asexual, demisexual, agender, and demigirl. I currently identify as genderfluid, panromantic, and autochorissexual, but that'll probably change :P
Hudor
October 29th, 2014, 05:49 AM
It had been more of a protracted tussle but before i identified myself as bisexual i never really identified with any other label though I used to wish I was straight.
Abhorrence
October 29th, 2014, 06:58 AM
I thought for ages I was bisexual just because I wouldn't mind being with either gender but I think now that I'm asexual.
Zachary G
October 29th, 2014, 08:18 AM
i dont think i have ever misidentified myself, though i was always confused about my sexuality until i learned what the meaning of gay was. then i knew what my path was from there
ImCoolBeans
October 29th, 2014, 08:35 AM
Straight -> bisexual -> gay -> unsure -> human beings I find myself attracted to, most of whom are male (I'm not pan, just not labeling so strictly.)
wonderland
October 29th, 2014, 12:02 PM
i'm not really sure what my sexual orientation is, i'm only 15 and i feel like a lot of what i'm feeling could simply be hormones and such (even if it has been going on since i was like 7 lol)
if somebody does ask me my sexuality i would say straight - it's easier to explain and i don't have to fear people judging me
Whiskers
October 29th, 2014, 12:08 PM
I'm straight and honestly not that proud of it
romes3
October 29th, 2014, 05:05 PM
I've misidentified myself as straight. I'm actually bisexual.
queenofcontrariety
October 29th, 2014, 06:03 PM
I thought I was bisexual for a while, but I think it's more of a curiosity because I really can't see myself being in a relationship with a girl in a nonsexual way. I know that sounds insane, but guys make me feel safer and it just seems more natural for me for a relationship long term.
Uranus
October 29th, 2014, 06:50 PM
I'm straight.
I was bi-curious at 10-11 but went straight and stayed straight from 11.5-now
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