weird handjob

[jmw99]

so i was receiving a hj from my girlfriend of 7 months yesterday. it was our first and i got soft in the middle of it and didn't cum. Please help me with why this is. The lotion we used kinda burned and she wasn't doing anything wrong. I was super turned on by her so idk what happened. please helppp

[MechaSniper]

Well for one don't use lotion. It might of taken to long. And probably to slow to what your usual speed.

[fast8]

Try with out lotion and she may not being doing the way you done it

[Hideous]

It was probably the lotion (since you did say it was burning), use lube next time (you can get it at your nearest pharmacy/store).

[Taryn98]

your first time doing it...sounds like nerves to me, but that's normal
it'll probably get better next time
and if you want her to do anything different, don't be afraid to tell her directly so she knows

[biancachica]

The lotion that burned and your first time probably were why it didnt work.

[SethfromMI]

the loition sounds like it maybe the trouble. try without next time. it can also be though if your use to jacking off at a certain speed she is not going fast enough. like people said though try with lube next time

[asrlem]

The lotion is probably the issue so try a lube from a store because you might have been sub-consciously thinking about the cream and how it was burning.

[Laraa.01]

As others have said, it could be the lotion is it was burning then that could have had a role to play. Try it without the lotion, also is you were nervous at all then that could also make you go soft quickly.

[Buddy 912]

Your gf might need to practice a lot more so she knows exactly how you like it done.

[Zachary G]

if the lotion had a burning feeling then you need to not use it, if you need to use a house hold lube try using baby oil, it doesnt absorb into the skin as fast as lotion does. and it doesnt help to give your gf some guidance on how to give you a proper jo, like the way you would do it for yourself.

[playfull-qt]

I'm guessing that you were a little nervous, its only natural to feel that way. Next time try to relax and maybe tell her exactly what feels best.

As for the burning, I'd try something other then the lotion you were using

[hatsoff123]

Try it without lotion next time.

[Wyatt 13]

maybe you were nervous man

[rawrnoodels]

Yeah it was probably the lotion or she just went very slow idk but just use lube next time or use nothing however be very careful you can feel when she is about to do something very wrong she cant

[Canadian Dream]

Based on what you said the lotion was probably the problem. My suggestion is ether don't use it or use special lubricant if necessary.

[Your Captain]

Well if it hurt then your body is gunna forget about the HJ and telly you your dick is burning