Hormones rejecting school

[ariel22]

Hey you all :D
I have a little story that really bothers me for the last year..
I just turned to a 10th grader, school is pretty hard. trying my best. its very hard for me ! i have those friends who arent much a ''succeeders'' in school, but they are getting out all the time, meeting girls, investing in their instagram and looks, hook up every chick in the street or on instagram. yea its nice.. im getting kind of jealous. a small population in my town invest in school.. there was a time, two years ago i used to go out all day and meet girls and all but since school became harder.. yeah i gave up on some. my whatsapp became empty from chicks, while the friends i know seeing girls every day, hooking up, starting conversations.. aint nobody got time for that ! im getting tired looking around being different all the time.. ive always wanted to be ''in''. i think this low confidental attitude became from the fact i was obesed and suffered a lot of meanful words till 7th grade.. well.. now i look very good have a good body and nice clothes.. but still .. i really want to succeed at school. all those people around having fun making me lose my focus on school.. i dont sure what choice to get.. i want to talk to a hundread girls a day too..

[SethfromMI]

how about you try to manage to do both. I have a 3.8, I am on the football and baseball team, i work part time (though not as much as some people who do part time) and I have a very active social life.

It is understandable you want to have fun, but you got to work hard on your school stuffas well. having all those girls now don't mean anything if you have to work at McDonalds the rest of your life

[JamesSuperBoy]

Agreed^^

maybe as well you can have some good times.

[Luminous]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Relationships and Dating

[Karkat]

Lol. Being "in" means literally nothing. It won't matter once you graduate from school.

So if you want to spend all your effort being conformist and trying to fit in only to realize that it isn't going to matter in like 3-4 years tops instead of building hobbies, skills, and friendships that will actually mean something in a year or two (popularity guarantees that some people will like and respect you. It doesn't guarantee that anyone will actually care about you.) then by all means.

In my opinion, it's a waste of time. Sorry.

[asrlem]

Do good in school and eventually someone will come or you will get a break from school or something. Just do good in school and everything will fall into place i think.

[Wyatt 13]

Agree with Asrlem.

[TheN3rdyOutcast]

Lol. Being "in" means literally nothing. It won't matter once you graduate from school.

So if you want to spend all your effort being conformist and trying to fit in only to realize that it isn't going to matter in like 3-4 years tops instead of building hobbies, skills, and friendships that will actually mean something in a year or two (popularity guarantees that some people will like and respect you. It doesn't guarantee that anyone will actually care about you.) then by all means.

In my opinion, it's a waste of time. Sorry.

Couldn't have said it any better than this.

[ariel22]

thanks to all of you you :D