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Berlin Walrus
October 18th, 2014, 11:09 PM
Hello, fellow users. I request your help.

But before we jump into the action, I will give you a brief description of me.

I am a tall, clumsy, moderately functional Asperger's Syndrome teenager. I love anything affiliated with technology. I also overthink pretty much anything in existence, including this current situation.

Now, the part you've all been waiting for, the crush situation.

So I like this really nice girl in my High School. We talk every day for nearly 2 entire periods, which I consider pretty impressive by my standards. So, naturally, I took a liking to her and I have no clue if she returns my feelings. We seem to have many things in common, and she comprehends my video game references and political humor, so that's an instant plus in my book.

She makes eye contact whenever we talk, but this may be normal behavior.
She also laughs a LOT whenever I crack jokes or tell a somewhat funny story. I may just be a brilliant comedian, but I doubt it seriously. She talks about "picking up men" in a joking manner and makes fun of/teases me in the same way.

According to what I have read, these can be signs that the feeling is reciprocated. But, there's a problem.

I gave her my Skype info, as I don't own a cellular, and she said she would add me, but she has yet to do so. She was on a vacation the entire fall break, and had band activities for the past few days, including this weekend. I ASSUME that this is a decent excuse, but I still worry.

I would ramble about how much I want to hold her in my arms or whatever, but that's too mainstream and hormonal for me.

So, friends, what do you think? Does she like me?

Mates5inch
October 19th, 2014, 05:31 AM
I'm sure she does, but if she doesn't approach you or talk to you in 'that' kind of way then it's not meant to be. Don't force anything, it will just make it worse. Hope this helps

JamesSuperBoy
October 19th, 2014, 05:34 AM
I think you have to remind her -

Wyatt 13
October 19th, 2014, 10:36 AM
I think at least she likes you I'm not sure at this time if this like stuff could become something serious. Give it some time tho. Don't be to clingy.

liptonlee
October 19th, 2014, 11:25 AM
you do seem to overthink...but from the signs you have mentioned, I think you two share quite a good relationship for now, so just treat the Skype thing as simple forgetfulness and remind her.

Hope you guys work out! :)

Berlin Walrus
October 19th, 2014, 04:17 PM
Do you think that I should ask her out on a date within a week?

Is that even a good idea in my current circumstances?

SethfromMI
October 19th, 2014, 10:20 PM
she seems to like you as a friend at least. by what you say, it is even possible she may be interested you in a more romantic way

and don't let the skype thing bother you. like you said, she is busy. if I am busy I don't worry about my email or stuff like that

Karkat
October 20th, 2014, 05:40 AM
She might like you. I'd wait to ask her out on a date, though it couldn't hurt to remind her that you gave her your Skype info.

sweetcake
October 22nd, 2014, 06:51 AM
Wise men say only fools rush in-Elvis P.
Don't hurry it, you might scare her if you do. The next time you talk to her, try hinting a little about the skype thing. But really, stay cool, for all I know she just wants to be friends.