Lost all my friends.

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Hi guys,

Basically, I have totally f***** up. I have never really gotten on well with other boys until a few months ago, when I became best friends with two lads- the two best friends I have ever had. For the first time, I felt like nI had a friendship circle I could trust and feel happy in.

But recently, I have totally messed it all up. They are both under the impression I have been saying stuff behind their back because one of their girlfriends told them so, but it is completely not true. They seem to want nothing more to do with me, and have blocked me on all the social media and their numbers so I can't even have my say to them. I ran into one of them today and asked if we could sort it and he told me to f*** off.

What do I do? I genuinely worry for my own mental stability, I'm going through so much at the minute and idk what I will do without them :'(

[SethfromMI]

I am so sorry. you can try some more, but if they refuse to even give you a chance, then maybe they were not the greatest friends in the first place.

the goodn news is if you were able to make some friends you are able to make some more. try meeting some new people. i hope things are able to work out for you though

[ImagineRepublicCity]

First off, how recent has this been? If it's been in the past week or something, give it time, because they might cool down eventually.

Try and talk to them. Do whatever you can to try and sort things out. Let them know "Hey, look, can you please tell me what you are mad about? I don't know what I've done to make you angry."

When they do talk to you, don't blame them and don't blame yourself, if they say something which is completely untrue, just tell them "I never did that. I understand you may not believe me, but I would never want to do something like that."

It may take awhile, but let them know you are sincere. If you go off on them like "It's your fault, I did nothing wrong, you're just being a bitch," they're going to be less inclined to trust you or want to be your friend.

If they won't forgive you, I'm sorry to say, but I guess it would have to be time to move on. If they won't ever forgive you, I guess they weren't really good people in the first place. If that ever happens, we're here for you, and I'm sure you can find other people, because everyone always has someone.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Hi guys,

Basically, I have totally f***** up. I have never really gotten on well with other boys until a few months ago, when I became best friends with two lads- the two best friends I have ever had. For the first time, I felt like nI had a friendship circle I could trust and feel happy in.

But recently, I have totally messed it all up. They are both under the impression I have been saying stuff behind their back because one of their girlfriends told them so, but it is completely not true. They seem to want nothing more to do with me, and have blocked me on all the social media and their numbers so I can't even have my say to them. I ran into one of them today and asked if we could sort it and he told me to f*** off.

What do I do? I genuinely worry for my own mental stability, I'm going through so much at the minute and idk what I will do without them :'(


Does not seem you knew them well or for very long maybe there is other reasons behind this apart from the girl saying anyways maybe you are 17 so how old are the boys ?

[Yggdrasil]

The next time you meet them, yell at them! When they are stunned, you will have little time explain all. :)

[Karkat]

I agree with Seth and Nat, if they're going to act like jerks to you without giving you a chance, they probably weren't the best friends to begin with. Unfortunately. It sucks to realize that your friends aren't as there for you as they seem.

Try giving it some time, and going about it calmly, as Nat suggested. Maybe see why the girlfriend has it out for you so much if that seems reasonable.