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Seafood
October 18th, 2014, 05:37 AM
I really like this girl, call her Super Amazing Person.

So I try to get to know SAP (lol, sap) to be her friend and stuff but when ever I have a conversation I get all awkward and talk about weird shit.

She also has a bf 2 years older that the both of us. (I'm taller than him. :)) I'm not really gonna ask her out or anything, just need help about how not to be so awkward around her.

I try and talk to her a lot. (She knows I talk to her a lot.)

James Dean
October 18th, 2014, 06:21 AM
When you say like, do you mean you have attraction to her? If so, since she is already taken, as she has a boyfriend, it might be difficult for you to go to that level with her. The awkward moments are just there because you have attraction to her and you don't know how to act with her, it comes off like that. Don't be shy about it and give it a shot. Like I said before, because she is not single, you trying to flirt or come on to her might not be a good idea right now.

If you just want to be friends, then be continue to just be yourself and honest with her. Try to find things that the both of you have in common. If you done all that you could to try to get on a good friendship with her, then you shouldn't feel bad. She will either accept you or reject you. I do hope it all goes good, as I see you really want to make an effort to get to know her. I'm sure you'll be fine. Good luck. :)

Seafood
October 18th, 2014, 06:55 AM
When you say like, do you mean you have attraction to her? If so, since she is already taken, as she has a boyfriend, it might be difficult for you to go to that level with her. The awkward moments are just there because you have attraction to her and you don't know how to act with her, it comes off like that. Don't be shy about it and give it a shot. Like I said before, because she is not single, you trying to flirt or come on to her might not be a good idea right now.

If you just want to be friends, then be continue to just be yourself and honest with her. Try to find things that the both of you have in common. If you done all that you could to try to get on a good friendship with her, then you shouldn't feel bad. She will either accept you or reject you. I do hope it all goes good, as I see you really want to make an effort to get to know her. I'm sure you'll be fine. Good luck. :)

A very strong attraction.

Its difficult because, I can get anyone to laugh, or interested in my conversation, except for her. I get her to laugh maybe, 1/5 of the time, whereas other people its easy as fuck.

And really, I don't think her and her bf will break up. Ever. They have been together for like, 9 months. I've seen them together once, and holy shit, you would not want to interrupt the love that's there. Its so pure. I want that.

SethfromMI
October 18th, 2014, 09:27 AM
When you say like, do you mean you have attraction to her? If so, since she is already taken, as she has a boyfriend, it might be difficult for you to go to that level with her. The awkward moments are just there because you have attraction to her and you don't know how to act with her, it comes off like that. Don't be shy about it and give it a shot. Like I said before, because she is not single, you trying to flirt or come on to her might not be a good idea right now.

If you just want to be friends, then be continue to just be yourself and honest with her. Try to find things that the both of you have in common. If you done all that you could to try to get on a good friendship with her, then you shouldn't feel bad. She will either accept you or reject you. I do hope it all goes good, as I see you really want to make an effort to get to know her. I'm sure you'll be fine. Good luck. :)

this.