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Hmc2014
October 14th, 2014, 03:42 PM
hi,
Next week im going away on a school trip to spain for 8 days, i will be sharing rooms with one other person, we are good friends and i know him well, but i just dont know how to intriduce the topic of nudity while getting changed or getting out of the shower etc. can anybody ofer some advice???
Thanks
Harry
jordanhardy
October 14th, 2014, 03:54 PM
Joking start a conversation and lay some ground rules with him when you get to your room
deregisterme
October 14th, 2014, 04:25 PM
Just ask if he feels he needs privacy at certain time, and work to get naked if you're both happy
refrigeratorx
October 14th, 2014, 04:25 PM
if you feel too awkward doing any of that, see how it goes. the worst that could happen is that youre both really cautious and do everything privately or while the other person is out
Zachary G
October 14th, 2014, 05:04 PM
if you are unsure how to start the conversation, begin with it jokingly to break the ice and then talk to him about the issues you have then.
Hideous
October 14th, 2014, 05:25 PM
Ask him if it bothers him if you're changing/showering in the same dorm as him, simple as that. He's probably thinking the same thing.
SethfromMI
October 14th, 2014, 07:13 PM
I say just ask him. it is not that big of a deal and to be honest he may be wondering the same exact thing as you are. if you need to, use a joke to ease any tension. it really is not going to be a big deal as far as the convo goes
CrazyPerson101
October 14th, 2014, 07:31 PM
As everyone else here has said, If I where you, I'd ask him how he feels about it and if there is any tension, pass it off as an joke.
pconnor2001
October 14th, 2014, 07:32 PM
Ask him --same sex shouldn't be any big deal. Worst case, you change in private.
Drewboy
October 14th, 2014, 07:42 PM
Ask him if he's comfortable with being naked around each other.
voodoo doughnut
October 14th, 2014, 08:01 PM
i would ask him if he's ok seeing me naked. most guys will say yes. and if he wants to be nakey you've given him the opertunity. no sweat.
Jim1
October 14th, 2014, 09:54 PM
Or you could not say anything up front, just do whatever is normal for you, and assume it's normal for
other guys too. And then if he objects you can as a matter of courtesy ask him what he would
prefer, and do it. You could wait until he says something to say, "this is what I do at
home, but if it bothers you, I won't do it here."
asrlem
October 14th, 2014, 10:46 PM
Ask him because he probably has the same question as you so just go be straightforward in my opinion and get the answerr.
niallh2000
October 15th, 2014, 11:47 AM
I think its something you may want to talk to him about beforehand like "What shall we do about privacy" etc
JamesSuperBoy
October 15th, 2014, 11:54 AM
hi,
Next week im going away on a school trip to spain for 8 days, i will be sharing rooms with one other person, we are good friends and i know him well, but i just dont know how to intriduce the topic of nudity while getting changed or getting out of the shower etc. can anybody ofer some advice???
Thanks
Harry
What is the rooms - maybe with a separate shower and toilet so there would be space to dry and dress should you wish -
Hmc2014
October 15th, 2014, 12:31 PM
Thanks guys for all the replys ill hopefully bring it up befre we go or when we get there. 😜
Hmc2014
October 15th, 2014, 03:43 PM
What is the rooms - maybe with a separate shower and toilet so there would be space to dry and dress should you wish -
2 beds shower /toilet next door
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