First time sex - Excitement vs nerves.

[Laraa.01]

Hey guys,

Just a quick question for those who are not virgins. Both guys and girs can answer. The first time you had sex were you more excited or more nervous? I personally was far more excited but I get the impression nervousness is more common.

[jordanhardy]

I was so excited. I was 14 at the time and so happy that I was actually going to have sex. It wasn't something we had planned so I really get much chance to be nervous about it. I've had a couple of mates say to me that they were so nervous about it that they could keep a hard on.

[Zachary G]

I was excited, scared, and nervous all at the same time because I really didnt know what to expect, but once things got going I calmed down and was more excited than anything else

[aceasarsalad]

I was excited. I knew it would feel good, and playing with another boy/girl is sooo much fun. It's nice to start by kissing, then start taking each others clothes off, then kissing and licking in other places, all before going "all the way."

[mattjh-]

I was very excited when I had sex for the first time. There were a bit nervousness but that didn't bother me.

[Karkat]

I was nervous as a motherfucker. Partially because we were so time-constrained...

[Laraa.01]

Thanks guys for all your responses so far. Really interesting.

[lisa S]

Haven't had sex yet, my choice, but I can say I was sooo super nervous before I gave my first bj. I chickened out at the very last second like 2-3 times over different days before finally doing it. My initial reacting was "OMG, I can't believe I have a penis in my mouth." I was just as nervous a couple times later when I decided I wasn't gonna pull out and let the guy cum in my mouth. Like the couple seconds between him saying he was about to cum and when he cam was AGONIZING!

[PatrickV]

i was so nervous. surprised i even got it up lol

[biancachica]

I was very excited and horny probably because of puberty. And i really loved my bf at the time and i wanted to share something special with hima and take to the next level. I was also nervous because i was scared it would hurt and i wasnt too sure how to do it.

[mattsmith48]

I was drunk

[Ricky.h]

Hey guys,

Just a quick question for those who are not virgins. Both guys and girs can answer. The first time you had sex were you more excited or more nervous? I personally was far more excited but I get the impression nervousness is more common.

Excited , but I was mostly horny so it was a strong crave to fuck.

[SethfromMI]

I was pretty excited. I was a little nervous I was going to be able to satisfy her . I was 14 and she was experienced at 16. I got the job done though (sorry too much detail?)

[Derek35]

I wasn't nervous just excited

[ScottieDog]

I was quite nervous but I trusted my partner 100% so it was OK.

[Kaydn]

not many nerves, was exciting. The girl couldnt take it at first so I got a bit nervous for a little bit but eventually it went smooth ;) haha

[Buddy 912]

I was EXCITED!

[nrob1993]

Hey guys,

Just a quick question for those who are not virgins. Both guys and girs can answer. The first time you had sex were you more excited or more nervous? I personally was far more excited but I get the impression nervousness is more common.

just curious....did you have an orgasm the first time?

[ChrisTJ]

just curious....did you have an orgasm the first time?

Not the first time no.

[Laraa.01]

Not the first time no.

Me neither :(

[allisonmyers]

both n no didn't orgasm

[schoolgirlz]

Kind of just happened so I didn't have time think about it and become nervous.

[EvanJay]

i was excited and horny..never nervous...at 14 you was just too energetic to be nervous lol

[jeremyp]

i was more excited than nervous because neither one of us really new what we were doing so it was just a series of experimentations.

[Laura Crofty]

Nervous, but couldn't wait. Wasn't planned Si no real time to nervous, still was like stressed so much for first few strokes. Bit the same with a bj

[Daniella98]

I was both excited and nervous. Like 80 excited and 20 nervous. I orgasmed more than once I remember

[nicole97]

I was 13 and i would say more excited than nervous, I had made the decision and planned on it happening after gradually becoming more comfortable with the decisions, knowing I loved my BF and wanted him to be first despite being fairly young, so I had prepared myself mentally/emotionally. Only real concern was if/how badly it would hurt and bleed, and how he'd react but I made myself more comfortable there as well by making sure he understood that we'd both enjoy it more if he was gentle to begin with. Like others were talking about, I didn't orgasm my first time either, but I was still more than satisfied both emotionally and physically afterwards.