Why does my crush act weird around me?

[clueless_one]

To start no girl I've ever liked has acted this weird. Girls have found out I like them and not act like this.

This girl looks at me a lot (girls who found out I liked them often only did this nothing else). Like today, I got up off my seat to do something. When I sat back at my seat, I looked in the direction she was sitting and I noticed her looking in my direction from the side of her eye. Then when I was in a group talking, she stood close to me and I even noticed her feet point towards me/stretch her legs towards me (seems to want to be close to me). When I was standing next to her, she also touched my hand (which was in my pocket, don't say she was trying to touch my privates). This happened when she was standing close to me and she has done this when I have previously touched my hand when passing things to each other.


She also acts all outgoing around other guys, touching their hair and face, but not acting as outgoing around me. But still stands close to me, looks at me from the corner of her eye, touches my hand when passing things to each other (touched my hand when in my pocket once, no she wasn't trying to touch my privates, I'm certain). She also looks down or hides her face when smiling after I smile and look at her. One time, she was just standing in front of me, I placed my hand on the middle of her lower back (the small of her back), she looked over her shoulder, saw me, looked down and smiled.

[Karkat]

She might like you. At very least, she wants to be near you.

[CharlieHorse]

Ask her if she likes you.
If she says yes, then she likes you.
If she says no, then she likes you and is lying because she's shy and embarrassed.
If she really says no, then she doesn't like you.

[clueless_one]

Ask her if she likes you.
If she says yes, then she likes you.
If she says no, then she likes you and is lying because she's shy and embarrassed.
If she really says no, then she doesn't like you.

I don't want to know if she likes me. I want to know what the actions mean. I would tell her how I feel, SHE IS DOING SCHOOL EXAMS. Why would I want to disturb her doing well in her exams and then look like the person who wanted her to fail her exams. NO!, I don't want to do such a thing.

SO I'm asking WHAT THE ACTIONS MEAN. NOT anything ABOUT TELLING HER HOW I FEEL.

[CharlieHorse]

I don't want to know if she likes me. I want to know what the actions mean. I would tell her how I feel, SHE IS DOING SCHOOL EXAMS. Why would I want to disturb her doing well in her exams and then look like the person who wanted her to fail her exams. NO!, I don't want to do such a thing.

SO I'm asking WHAT THE ACTIONS MEAN. NOT anything ABOUT TELLING HER HOW I FEEL.


Pretty sure the actions mean "hey I kinda like you. Ask me if I like you so i can say yes and then we can be a couple and stuff". At least that's what I think.
No girls have really been sweet with me like that, so I'm only guessing behavior like that is liking. If I liked a girl, I'd probably act similar to that towards her. Subtle hints that I like her.

[SethfromMI]

it sounds like she may have a crush on you as well

[clueless_one]

it sounds like she may have a crush on you as well

By have a crush on me as well, you mean she likes me back?

[SethfromMI]

By have a crush on me as well, you mean she likes me back?

very possibly. you seem to at least be getting her attention. try to get to know her and talk to her some more. some are fine by just asking flat out, but it is better if they know you at least some what first.

[jordanhardy]

It's pretty obvious that she likes you, anyone could see that

[Croconaw]

Yes. If this is the same girl from your other posts, then she definitely likes you.

[clueless_one]

Yes. If this is the same girl from your other posts, then she definitely likes you.

It's pretty obvious that she likes you, anyone could see that

very possibly. you seem to at least be getting her attention. try to get to know her and talk to her some more. some are fine by just asking flat out, but it is better if they know you at least some what first.

Pretty sure the actions mean "hey I kinda like you. Ask me if I like you so i can say yes and then we can be a couple and stuff". At least that's what I think.
No girls have really been sweet with me like that, so I'm only guessing behavior like that is liking. If I liked a girl, I'd probably act similar to that towards her. Subtle hints that I like her.

She might like you. At very least, she wants to be near you.

The only thing I dont understand is why she touched my hand when it was in my pockets. I overheard her tell a friend of hers she is shy, which makes things even more confusing as to why this happened. I'm not sure if her reaction would have been different if it was an accident, but one thing I know is she left her hand how it was for a while (didn't move until she had to).

I'm thinking that if she did it accidentally, she would have moved her hand straight away and acted like nothing happened. But the fact she didn't move her hand for a while, is what seems weird to me.

I know her well enough to know that she wasn't trying to touch my privates. I'm 100% certain as to the type of girl she is.

[SethfromMI]

she touched your hand def sounds like she was flirting with you .

[Karkat]

The only thing I dont understand is why she touched my hand when it was in my pockets. I overheard her tell a friend of hers she is shy, which makes things even more confusing as to why this happened. I'm not sure if her reaction would have been different if it was an accident, but one thing I know is she left her hand how it was for a while (didn't move until she had to).

I'm thinking that if she did it accidentally, she would have moved her hand straight away and acted like nothing happened. But the fact she didn't move her hand for a while, is what seems weird to me.

I know her well enough to know that she wasn't trying to touch my privates. I'm 100% certain as to the type of girl she is.

She might've just wanted to be near to you, and if you didn't react when she did it, she might've thought you didn't notice.

[clueless_one]

she touched your hand def sounds like she was flirting with you .

When my hand was in my pocket... It just seems weird cause I overheard her say she is shy.

[SethfromMI]

well maybe she wants to flirt with you but she is shy and doesn't know which move she should make either

[clueless_one]

She might've just wanted to be near to you, and if you didn't react when she did it, she might've thought you didn't notice.

If I like her, why would I notice her touching my hand. If you like someone, you try and make them feel comfortable and to show you are comfortable (as you like them). Thats what I think and that's all I did. Also, the fact that I'm shy/inexperienced in dating would also affect my reactions

well maybe she wants to flirt with you but she is shy and doesn't know which move she should make either

But she flirts to me and is usually outgoing to ALL other guys, but is extremely quiet around me. Never talks to me, just looks (usually from the corner of her eyes).

[SethfromMI]

well sometimes girls may seem more out going ot everyone else but arem ore quiet and shy around the one they do like. I am just trying to throw out possibilites

[Karkat]

If I like her, why would I notice her touching my hand. If you like someone, you try and make them feel comfortable and to show you are comfortable (as you like them). Thats what I think and that's all I did. Also, the fact that I'm shy/inexperienced in dating would also affect my reactions

But she doesn't necessarily know that...?

[clueless_one]

But she doesn't necessarily know that...?

But how was I meant to react. My hands in my pockets, she put her hand on top of my hand (over my pocket). I can't just take out my hand from my pocket and have an actual reaction. My only reaction was more from my genital region and the fact I kind of froze. If she actually held my hand (if that's what she was going for) I would have given a reaction.

[SethfromMI]

why couldn't you have made a move though? next time I would just to see where it goes

[clueless_one]

why couldn't you have made a move though? next time I would just to see where it goes

She is doing school exams. If it wasn't for that I would have made a move long ago. I don't want to be the one who makes her fail or preform poorly. It would make me look bad.

[SethfromMI]

something about this is not adding up for me. holding her hand wont make her fail her exams

[clueless_one]

something about this is not adding up for me. holding her hand wont make her fail her exams

I'm talking about starting a relationship. Not holding her hand. I just couldnt give a proper reaction cause her hand was on mine when my hand was in my pocket. She put her hand on the outside of my pocket. Me moving my hand would possibly make her think I'm giving a negative reaction.

[SethfromMI]

ah I see what you are saying. still, talking to her is not going to cause her to fail, nor is being in a relationship. if she passes her exams it is because she was ready, if she doesn't it is because she wasn't

[Karkat]

But how was I meant to react. My hands in my pockets, she put her hand on top of my hand (over my pocket). I can't just take out my hand from my pocket and have an actual reaction. My only reaction was more from my genital region and the fact I kind of froze. If she actually held my hand (if that's what she was going for) I would have given a reaction.

Well she probably figured you would move or speak up if you were uncomfortable.

[CharlieHorse]

But how was I meant to react. My hands in my pockets, she put her hand on top of my hand (over my pocket). I can't just take out my hand from my pocket and have an actual reaction. My only reaction was more from my genital region and the fact I kind of froze. If she actually held my hand (if that's what she was going for) I would have given a reaction.

hold her hand :3

[clueless_one]

ah I see what you are saying. still, talking to her is not going to cause her to fail, nor is being in a relationship. if she passes her exams it is because she was ready, if she doesn't it is because she wasn't

She also has strict parents, so that is also why I'm thinking about her exams.

Well she probably figured you would move or speak up if you were uncomfortable.

Exactly what I mean. If I was uncomfortable or not interested. I would have moved back a little.

[SethfromMI]

well when do exams end? it is not like they last forever

[Karkat]

She also has strict parents, so that is also why I'm thinking about her exams.



Exactly what I mean. If I was uncomfortable or not interested. I would have moved back a little.

So she probably figured it was ok to keep her hand there.

[clueless_one]

well when do exams end? it is not like they last forever

Not sure

So she probably figured it was ok to keep her hand there.

Exactly, and if I'm fine with something that intimate, it means I like her.

[SethfromMI]

wait what does that have to do with exams ending? not that I think you have to wait that long, because I don't. I say go for it man

[CharlieHorse]

Exactly, and if I'm fine with something that intimate, it means I like her.

Tell her Right after the tests!
Don't let love go! Chase it! :)

[Karkat]

when I see her again in my group of friends.



Exactly, and if I'm fine with something that intimate, it means I like her.

...I'm lost as to what you're driving at here.

She most likely likes you as well- isn't that what I said in my initial post?

[SethfromMI]

just go for it man!

[clueless_one]

...I'm lost as to what you're driving at here.

She most likely likes you as well- isn't that what I said in my initial post?

Tell her Right after the tests!
Don't let love go! Chase it! :)

just go for it man!

Ok new thing entirely about this girl. Today I said hi and waved at her (even though we were close enough to just say hi). She responded saying hi and again waved in the same way I did. I know that if a girl mirrors your actions it can mean she is interested. I saw her with her sister, she is still doing exams.

So does her waving when saying hi after I did it and when we were close enough to just say hi mean she is interested? Just thinking about it, waving so close to each other does seem awkward/weird, and she copied me.

[Karkat]

Ok new thing entirely about this girl. Today I said hi and waved at her (even though we were close enough to just say hi). She responded saying hi and again waved in the same way I did. I know that if a girl mirrors your actions it can mean she is interested. I saw her with her sister, she is still doing exams.

So does her waving when saying hi after I did it and when we were close enough to just say hi mean she is interested? Just thinking about it, waving so close to each other does seem awkward/weird, and she copied me.

Eh, I think you're overthinking this part.

[SethfromMI]

^ I agree. you are just going to have to find a way to see if you can get closer to her. maybe she is interested, maybe she is not. I don't know, you can only try and see what happens