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HUSTLEMAN
October 10th, 2014, 05:49 PM
Hello my VT subjects

I am a smal sixteen year old guy. And I have been known to be a goody two shoes guy. And they must seem to forget that I have hormones and I get horny a fairly good amount and well I like girls alot so whenever I go in and try to show my feelings to a girl I like or say something way out of character and somewhat perverted they just back away like I am the plauge. For example, at my homecoming pep rally it degraded into a major twerking fest and I wanted a piece of the action. NOPE NADA NOTHING. When the realized that I got close and started to twerk me, they just stopped and walked away. I mean come on EVERYBODY got a lil' twerk action except me. What do I have to do to shed off this little brother image?

CosmicNoodle
October 10th, 2014, 05:58 PM
Personally I lost that image when I started doing weed, abusing presctription drugs and got kicked out of college, but thats not ideal I will admit.

Just behave like a normal human being, don't be something you're not, just be yourself, and don't care so muchy about what other people think. And are you really bothered about a twerk fest? There are more fun things to do.

TheN3rdyOutcast
October 10th, 2014, 06:58 PM
I am a little brother as well, but honestly, I don't give a crap anymore (or at least I try not to). If people think of me as a goody-two -shoes, fine. That just means, I'll be slightly moremlikely to be accepted over my detractors for things like colleges, jobs, scholarships and the like.

Also, it may be because I'm gay and in favor of having a committed mongamous relationship, but the idea of twerking is ridiculous to me (and twerking on other people is worse.) This is my opinion.

fast8
October 10th, 2014, 07:37 PM
You will just have to fine away to shed it or fine someone that will accepts you for who you are it will happen

ksdnfkfr
October 10th, 2014, 09:16 PM
I know what it's like to be viewed as small and cute. although my problem with it is getting undesired attention because of it. But from what you're saying it has more to with personality. I do know often people want badly to be a part of whatever they fit into the least. "Why them and not me?" I bet gets asked by lots.

asrlem
October 10th, 2014, 09:23 PM
Just be yourself and you will eventually grow out of that image, like you grow out of habits and things that you talk about. You will probably grow out of this and get "more action"

HUSTLEMAN
October 10th, 2014, 09:40 PM
Personally I lost that image when I started doing weed, abusing presctription drugs and got kicked out of college, but thats not ideal I will admit.

Just behave like a normal human being, don't be something you're not, just be yourself, and don't care so muchy about what other people think. And are you really bothered about a twerk fest? There are more fun things to do.

Just a bit but I was just providing a recent example. And I try to be me but when I be me and try to ask a girl. I say the wrong thing and BAM branded as a creep.

Karkat
October 12th, 2014, 03:56 AM
I was always the innocent youngster of the group (which is funny, because I'm older and bigger than everyone else??) until

Well

I'm still kind of that way. Hm.

Anyways, I think it's quieted down a bit with age, and my...Teenage rebellious phase (which is still happening to some extent I guess, eh) but it's not gone yet.

Who knows? I might be the babyfaced kid sibling until I have my inevitable midlife crisis. :P