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Ryuun
October 9th, 2014, 07:35 AM
So i have been friends with this girl for a while now and we talk every day that we can... She lives in England and i live in Australia

about 2 weeks ago when i was seeing this other girl going to movies and stuff but we never really clicked, well... I didnt anyway and then i realised im in love with the girl from England.

As i said ive been talking to her for a while now and she makes me really happy every day and ive stopped doing drugs because of her.

I would tell her in a heart beat that i like her but she has a boyfriend... I dont think its anything serious because he is from usa and idk when im with them both she doesnt really pay much attention to him. She gives me more attention

Should i just man up and tell her i like her? i mean ive ditch this other girl for her, and if i do what should i say? help please i cant take it anymore

CosmicNoodle
October 9th, 2014, 09:05 AM
I can't really connect with falling for my best friend, but erlier oin today I did look at my (not so close, but still fairly good) friend Dave and think, "Ohhh, THAT is nice", it happens to me every once in a while, usually it end after a few days, you never know, this could just me a phase.

But if it's not, I wouldn't recommend telling her, from all the storys I've heard, usually it just freaks people out when they find out that there best frind has fallen for them. It's best to keep it to yourself if you can,

JamesSuperBoy
October 9th, 2014, 10:10 AM
So i have been friends with this girl for a while now and we talk every day that we can... She lives in England and i live in Australia

about 2 weeks ago when i was seeing this other girl going to movies and stuff but we never really clicked, well... I didnt anyway and then i realised im in love with the girl from England.

As i said ive been talking to her for a while now and she makes me really happy every day and ive stopped doing drugs because of her.

I would tell her in a heart beat that i like her but she has a boyfriend... I dont think its anything serious because he is from usa and idk when im with them both she doesnt really pay much attention to him. She gives me more attention

Should i just man up and tell her i like her? i mean ive ditch this other girl for her, and if i do what should i say? help please i cant take it anymore


I think you should be honest about how you feel -

Hope it all goes well

Ryuun
October 9th, 2014, 07:12 PM
Thank you both but she told me this morning she likes me! my chances are looking pretty good.. Finally in a long time i feel like i am winning at this game called life

Seafood
October 9th, 2014, 08:43 PM
Thank you both but she told me this morning she likes me! my chances are looking pretty good.. Finally in a long time i feel like i am winning at this game called life

Good luck Aussie mate.

Karkat
October 12th, 2014, 04:03 AM
Good luck! :)

SethfromMI
October 12th, 2014, 10:09 AM
go for it and tell her. but do realize long distance relationships can sometimes be very hard to do

Ryuun
October 15th, 2014, 12:51 AM
go for it and tell her. but do realize long distance relationships can sometimes be very hard to do

yeah i realize but ive never felt so strongly about a girl before so i have to try

SethfromMI
October 15th, 2014, 06:35 AM
yeah i realize but ive never felt so strongly about a girl before so i have to try

then go for it man and best of luck to you

Body odah Man
October 15th, 2014, 07:27 AM
So i have been friends with this girl for a while now and we talk every day that we can... She lives in England and i live in Australia

about 2 weeks ago when i was seeing this other girl going to movies and stuff but we never really clicked, well... I didnt anyway and then i realised im in love with the girl from England.

As i said ive been talking to her for a while now and she makes me really happy every day and ive stopped doing drugs because of her.

I would tell her in a heart beat that i like her but she has a boyfriend... I dont think its anything serious because he is from usa and idk when im with them both she doesnt really pay much attention to him. She gives me more attention

Should i just man up and tell her i like her? i mean ive ditch this other girl for her, and if i do what should i say? help please i cant take it anymore

Don't. I once thought it was a good idea and tried it. It wasn't and ended the friendship. I think the possible negative effects far outweigh the possible benefits.

asrlem
October 17th, 2014, 11:39 PM
So it is a far distance relationship. I dont think those really work that well and also how did you even get her # i mean u guys live thousands of miles apart. Do what you want i think it is yours and her choice

jhillardau
October 19th, 2014, 07:55 AM
Life is like puzzle, at first you don't know what goes where but after trying to fit the bits of your life together, it will always fit together somehow so don't give up because tomorrow could be the best day of your life and she could end up being yors forever

Wyatt 13
October 21st, 2014, 01:42 PM
The best of luck to you man!

Cangirl
October 21st, 2014, 04:56 PM
Good luck :) and don't forget to tell her she's pretty and special and how she makes you feel. We kinda like that ;)