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James Dean
October 9th, 2014, 04:10 AM
So being that National Coming Out Day is creeping up, this Saturday on October 11, anyone thinking about coming out to a friend, family member, or just even to yourself?
Even though I am not yet out to my family, I have suspicions that they already know and are going to be cool about it, but I would like the satisfaction of them knowing for sure. Also that I have other LGBT people in my family, and we aren't really conservative, but I'm still waiting.
I'm thinking about telling a few friends who don't know, and I'm still contemplating on telling close family and cousins and things like that.
CosmicNoodle
October 9th, 2014, 09:40 AM
I'd like to, but no.
JamesSuperBoy
October 9th, 2014, 09:41 AM
So being that National Coming Out Day is creeping up, this Saturday on October 11, anyone thinking about coming out to a friend, family member, or just even to yourself?
Even though I am not yet out to my family, I have suspicions that they already know and are going to be cool about it, but I would like the satisfaction of them knowing for sure. Also that I have other LGBT people in my family, and we aren't really conservative, but I'm still waiting.
I'm thinking about telling a few friends who don't know, and I'm still contemplating on telling close family and cousins and things like that.
Hope that all goes well -
Calliope
October 9th, 2014, 09:43 AM
I'm already out to quite a few people, but I'll come out to the people who don't know.
Babs
October 9th, 2014, 10:40 AM
I don't plan on it, honestly.
CassnovA
October 9th, 2014, 10:47 AM
That sounds like a real stupid day. People will do it when theyre good and ready
Cognizant
October 9th, 2014, 12:08 PM
I'm already out to everyone.
Babs
October 9th, 2014, 03:58 PM
Do not out anyone on National Coming Out Day.
That should be obvious but I've heard quite a few stories of people being outed on this day, so I'm putting this here just in case.
Karkat
October 9th, 2014, 05:15 PM
Do not out anyone on National Coming Out Day.
That should be obvious but I've heard quite a few stories of people being outed on this day, so I'm putting this here just in case.
Important.
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I won't be coming out, I've kinda already decided that it's unnecessary. I come out to the people I need to be out to: i.e. close friends, partners/potential partners. No one else really needs to know, imo. (For me- I have no problem with the concept of coming out really)
Stronger
October 11th, 2014, 09:37 AM
I'm out to only two people, one of my close work friends and well my crush other than that, I don't have any real plans as of currently to want to come out to anyone else.
Babs
October 13th, 2014, 05:25 PM
I actually ended up coming out to my brother on the 11th. I didn't want to. He asked, and I didn't really wanna come out but I didn't wanna lie but he didn't really care. I guess he just wanted to know.
SethfromMI
October 13th, 2014, 08:20 PM
to be honest I did not know it was even on Saturday . I would have thought about it
Abyssal Echo
October 13th, 2014, 09:25 PM
I'm already out to everyone.
Descene
October 17th, 2014, 04:44 AM
I've never really gotten on the bandwagon for that day, but what I do enjoy is the positive messages that are sent. I know a youtuber who does very lovely talks every year on that day similar to It Gets Better videos. I never "came out," but I'm out. It's a nice message, but it would also be nice to spread the message that coming out shouldn't be necessary to be out.
vboy
October 18th, 2014, 08:05 PM
No
Im waoting for the right moment
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