need help advice with girls

[jhillardau]

So I have two main friends who are girls and one of them (Caitlyn) is a very close friend but she says she doesn't like me but she said she a had a crush on me and we dated for a date a year ago and we always hang out and chat about sex and personal things and the other (jess) has a crush on me but we have only been close friends for about a month. What should I do
Thanks from J :confused: :wub: :what:

[JamesSuperBoy]

hang on in there and see what happens -

[jhillardau]

hang on in there and see what happens -
I have been because I liked Caitlyn for a whole year and tried distracting myself with girlfriends but I still end up liking her!

[ScottieDog]

Just see what happens, it seems like Caitlyn is maybe not that interested in you for a relationship any more if that's what she said. Maybe try something with Jess? In my experience if a girl and a guy have been friends for over a year then the girl is likely to just view them more as a friend. Not always though so you always have a chance. I guess the only way of knowing is bringing up the topic of relationships and that you like them.

[James Dean]

I think between you and me, you should see what happens with Jess. I think with the other girl, you already went out with her, and it seems like things at that time didn't work out. So you should take this time to explore relationships and get a glimpse of what you actually like. Go and ask Jess out and maybe you'll get answers after that. Do you seem to have more attraction to one girl more than the other? I can't make a choice for you, it's up to you and you are going to have to make a choice.

Hopefully you'll be able to find peace with this. If things don't go well with either girl, then try to take a break and collect your feelings.

[Buddy 912]

You just might stay friends for along time (years). Time is on your side with her or someone else.