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asrlem
October 8th, 2014, 07:34 AM
Is there a way to tell if a girl has a crush on you? There is this one girl that always says hi and is really nice to me at school and is always talking to me. Do you think that she has a crush on me or is that just normal.

ImCoolBeans
October 8th, 2014, 07:58 AM
Well she could just want to be your friend, but in my experience those are often signs that a girl may have a crush on you. There is no sure fire way to tell, you can really only find out by asking, or asking her out on a date.

JustShady
October 8th, 2014, 08:54 AM
I think yes, she has a crush on you. If you want to be sure just go and ask her :)) , she will probably get confused and will not be able not to tell you the truth, just trust me

ScottieDog
October 8th, 2014, 12:37 PM
Difficult to tell really from the information you gave. Some girls are just friendly and it means nothing more than that. Try talking to her and getting to know her better, that might give you more of an idea :)

Body odah Man
October 8th, 2014, 12:39 PM
You need to trust your instinct in these matters. Like I did with F., whom I treated badly :( The memory racks me still with shame

ForLackOfABetterUser
October 8th, 2014, 02:19 PM
Just ask her. But in my opinion the three main signs to tell if a girl likes you are: eye contact, touching and body language (like playing with her hair and things). To see these signs (or lack of) go and talk to her haha. Good luck!

James Dean
October 9th, 2014, 03:23 AM
It is possible that she might have feelings for you. Girls usually expect men to approach them and to ask them out. You should probably do that just in case. The worst is that she rejects or doesn't accept you. That's no problem as it is part of the game. You will never know however if you don't go up and talk to her though. If you are interested in her and from what you said, she is into you, go on ahead and take the chance. Hopefully it all goes good. :)

Buddy 912
October 9th, 2014, 04:27 PM
Just because a girl talks to you doesn't mean she has a crush on you. At 13, you will have alot of crushes. Take a cold shower.

asrlem
October 10th, 2014, 09:14 PM
Well she is nice to me and we talk a lot in our classes so i think that she does. Also she is my old friends sister... What to do?

tcjonvt
October 10th, 2014, 09:57 PM
From what you're saying, you're clearly both just friends. But you never know!
For me, I've always been looked upon- then smiled at, and I basically get approached by a girl, and that's when I know I've got someone that has me in mind. Having said that, I've been friend zoning a bit lately so it doesn't matter to me if she (or even a he) does that.

Karkat
October 12th, 2014, 03:51 AM
She might like you, she might just want to be friends. You never know until you ask.