Does this make me gay

[football matt]

I have no sexual attraction to guys but I was jerking with a friend of me and he suggested that we try sucking each other. I said ok and he ended up cumming in my mouth. Like I said no attraction it was just one of those things that happened. Does it make me gay?

[Elysium]

Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality & Gender

[Babs]

You said you have no attraction to guys... A single homosexual encounter doesn't make you gay.

[James Dean]

You don't have to accept or agree with labels. You can't help how some situations come to be or who you love and are attracted to. To me a guy who is straight wouldn't do that, I am of course only speaking for myself and as a gay man myself who I can speak on the side you seem to be confused about.

I mean, just live life how you want. Don't try to let other people judge you, or considered what is gay or isn't. Like I said in my opinion, this sounds a little bisexual curious, but I could be wrong and you might not want to take that label and I don't know your full situation. Your sexuality might become more clear to you as time goes along though and hopefully you accept and become happy with it. :)

[slopestyle]

I wouldn't say it makes you gay. Nothing wrong with having a little fun with friends

[ScottieDog]

There's a difference between just experimenting and trying stuff out and being gay or bi. I mean did you enjoy it? Did the experience satisfy you sexually? If so you could be gay or bi, depending on how you view girls. Then again you said there was no attraction so it was probably just a one off experiment which lots of guys have done. A friend of mine jerked another guy off once to see what it felt like but he identifies as straight. :)

[ForLackOfABetterUser]

I don't think it makes you gay/bi in my opinion. To be gay I was told you have to have a romantic and sexual attraction to males. If you have only one or neither then you aren't gay. :)

[ImCoolBeans]

If you have sexual or romantic feelings for women, then you are not gay. Teenage boys, and girls, often have a same sex experience in their youth, and doesn't necessarily change your sexuality, or make you anything. If you have no attraction to men then you likely just had an experience, and I wouldn't worry over it. I wouldn't worry about labels either, sexuality if very fluid and things happen.

[JamesSuperBoy]

I have no sexual attraction to guys but I was jerking with a friend of me and he suggested that we try sucking each other. I said ok and he ended up cumming in my mouth. Like I said no attraction it was just one of those things that happened. Does it make me gay?


No as you say no sexual attraction. :yes:

[CosmicNoodle]

Short answer: No

[pjones]

nope, you had some fun with a friend that's all

[Drewboy]

No, I don't think so you were just having some casual sexual experiences, I think everyone does.

[vit1co06]

Not at all man. Its just experimenting and like you said there's no sexual attraction so you're fine

[xXEverReadyXx]

No, it doesn't. As you said you have no attraction towards guys, then it was most likely just experimentation and is completely normal for teenagers to experience.

[ksdnfkfr]

Why is it you'll never see a gay guy post, "I just did a sex act with a girl, does that make me straight?" I hope you get my point.

[Davidthomas2222]

Stop worrying about it and enjoy it for what it was! Experimenting is fun!

[jordanhardy]

I wouldn't say your gay just for doing that. If you don't fabe Amy for of sexual attraction towards other guys them I'd say your not gay. Everybody experiments with others at some stage. I have with guys out of curiosity, but still prefer girls.

[JacobIN]

Just means you had a sexual experience with a guy. Heck, if you liked it, keep doing it ^.^ nothing wrong with being gay.

[SethfromMI]

if you are not sexually attracted then no

[LiamC]

Of course not. It's really just experimenting, if you didn't feel a sexual attraction to him then you know you aren't gay or bi.

[Zachary G]

if you say you arent attracted to guys then you arent attracted them, so one episode of experimentation doesnt mean you are gay. if you feel as though you enjoyed the encounter and would want to do it again, you might consider the fact that you are bi or at least bi-curious. i wouldnt worry about it, just go with the flow of how you feel.

[gotcha303]

You might be alittle curious

[riverboy]

You had some fun. Your not gay.

[refrigeratorx]

labels suck. you are who you are. dont feel like you need to call yourself something. espexially for one experience. explore and do ur thing. and are YOU

[vboy]

No it dosen't

[CrazyPerson101]

I have no sexual attraction to guys but I was jerking with a friend of me and he suggested that we try sucking each other. I said ok and he ended up cumming in my mouth. Like I said no attraction it was just one of those things that happened. Does it make me gay?


No, this doesn't make you gay. Being gay means you have an romantic, emtionational and sexual attraction to guys, where you and your friend where experimenting, You didn't get any attraction from it whatsoever so therefore this doesn't make you gay. Hope this helped :)

[Wyatt 13]

I think was just experimenting stuff

[fast8]

No don't make you gay

[Hermes96]

no your just experimenting it doesn't make you gay.

[Cangirl]

Yeah its not a big deal. and what makes you gay is how you feel towards your own sex romantically and physically. :) and nothing wrong with being straight or bi or gay or whatever. I think a lot of boys have played with a best friend right? i know a lot of girls have that say theyre straight to lol

[Snydergate]

You said you have no attraction to guys... A single homosexual encounter doesn't make you gay.

What he said

[Abhorrence]

Nope, it means nothing about your sexuality. Just do whatever you wanna do and don't label yourself.

[matty 1414]

No , you can play around with friends because it feels good and is fun. But still be attracted to girls.

[Uranus]

No. It does not.
It's simple experimenting.
Alot of straight guys have done it

[Andrew2499]

No, you were just experimenting. theres nothing wrong with that

[ThePhantasm]

Not gay

[Deactivated]

I agree with the other replies; a single gay encounter does not make you gay. You'd be surprised just how many straight people have had gay experiences. It's simply being curious and exploring. :D

[brina]

I dnt think it makes u gay. I like seeing girls having sex but I dnt go out n look 4 girls as I do boys