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sammm12
October 7th, 2014, 06:55 PM
Hello! Im 19 and im currently with my first boyfriend. We have been together for 6 and a half months and im happy as ever with him. We dont ever fight... ever. We havent had one fight or disagreement yet. But there is one problem.. I feel like he is way to busy to have a girlfriend right now. He goes to school full time in the city and he takes the train everyday so theres somedays that hes downtown from noon until 10 at night. He also works all day on saturdays and sundays. I have not seen him in 3 weeks. I did recently bring up this issue and he said that he is trying to see me but hes very overwhelmed with school and he doesnt want to lose me. I dont want to break up with him. My best friend thinks thats whats best for me but I dont. I still talk to him everyday and he always tells me he misses me and stuff. What should i do? Should I be worried or should I just wait for the time to come when he can hang out with me? Help!

James Dean
October 8th, 2014, 01:43 AM
If it were me, I would find the earliest time that has free and when he isn't tied up with school or work. I think whether you continue the relationship or go your seperate ways, you both deserve to have an in person, physical discussion about it. Find a quiet place like a park or just somewhere so you can really talk about this issue in your relationship. I can't make a decision for you as it's your relationship and so it should be your choice as to how you proceed with him. I do wish you the best and hopefully things go well for you. :)