What does this mean is he coming onto me?!?

[Haydenn3]

So the other i was chatting to a sort of friend but not really a friend as we only chat very few times after jokingly talking about having sex with each other he asked if i was gay i said no as i dont want him to humiliate me he then stopped sort of chatting to me but now thinking about it it sounds like he was just trying to trap me to make fun but it just seems strange as he acts and looks a little bit gay its just so confusing and i just want to know so i can take it further and if i do take it further how would i go about talking to him and getting to know him better and get down to the subject with out him being able to humiliate me ?!

Sorry if it doesn't make sense but please answer its really bugging me #Many thanks :)

[Ainsleyshea]

just talk to him get to know him

[Haydenn3]

just talk to him get to know him

He wont reply to me now should i ask him why he is ignoring me or what ?

[Ainsleyshea]

that's your decision not mine

[Zachary G]

maybe you should try asking him why he wont talk to you, if you can get him to talk to you at all. it could all be a game for him, but the only way to find out is to talk to him and get to know him. its not going to be easy, but first you need to know you can trust eachother enough to talk truth, without it, its a waste of time. the ball is in your court sport.

[Karkat]

maybe you should try asking him why he wont talk to you, if you can get him to talk to you at all. it could all be a game for him, but the only way to find out is to talk to him and get to know him. its not going to be easy, but first you need to know you can trust eachother enough to talk truth, without it, its a waste of time. the ball is in your court sport.

I have to agree with this. You won't know unless you ask him.

[James Dean]

Just try your best to patch things up. Be honest with him this time, and if he is being persistent still, then carry on without this. You have to make decisions you feel comfortable with. Don't second guess or doubt yourself. If you mean to say something, and it isn't disrespectful or hurtful, say it. Honestly is the best policy, most of the time. Other times it isn't. When you are dealing with friendships and relationships, you should always be truthful and communication is a big deal. I hope things do work out well for you. Contact him and if you have to apologize, make your peace with him do whatever you have to do to go forward.

If he stops talking to you, then you did all that you could do and hopefully he will turn around soon enough and get back in with you. Best of luck with this.

[Sasha M]

Oh my god, that was all one sentence... @[email protected]

On a serious note though. Do you want him as a friend? If not then just forget about it. If so, catch him in the IRL's and plead sorry. :) If that fails then, well, your on your own.

[vboy]

Probably not
You would be abit more certain if he was

[CrazyPerson101]

So the other i was chatting to a sort of friend but not really a friend as we only chat very few times after jokingly talking about having sex with each other he asked if i was gay i said no as i dont want him to humiliate me he then stopped sort of chatting to me but now thinking about it it sounds like he was just trying to trap me to make fun but it just seems strange as he acts and looks a little bit gay its just so confusing and i just want to know so i can take it further and if i do take it further how would i go about talking to him and getting to know him better and get down to the subject with out him being able to humiliate me ?!

Sorry if it doesn't make sense but please answer its really bugging me #Many thanks :)

Just try your best to patch things up. Be honest with him this time, and if he is being persistent still, then carry on without this. You have to make decisions you feel comfortable with. Don't second guess or doubt yourself. If you mean to say something, and it isn't disrespectful or hurtful, say it. Honestly is the best policy, most of the time. Other times it isn't. When you are dealing with friendships and relationships, you should always be truthful and communication is a big deal. I hope things do work out well for you. Contact him and if you have to apologize, make your peace with him do whatever you have to do to go forward.

If he stops talking to you, then you did all that you could do and hopefully he will turn around soon enough and get back in with you. Best of luck with this.


I couldn't say it better myself