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JakeD14
October 4th, 2014, 08:49 PM
So this girl I recently started liking was flirting with me and my friend on the same night. We where all out drinking and she kept just flirting with us both, but more towards him. It's really annoyed me since I like her but he doesn't know that and neither does she. I don't really know if this can be answered but I thought I should post it since it was annoying me.
CosmicNoodle
October 4th, 2014, 09:32 PM
Urrm...what did you want us to do?
The only advice I can think to give, if she want to go out with your friend, she will, nothing you can do to stop it, if it happens to end up that way, just be happy for them
ImCoolBeans
October 4th, 2014, 10:32 PM
Well if you haven't let either of them know that you're interested in her, then you shouldn't really be too annoyed at him or her. If she is more interested in your friend then there is nothing you can do. If you would have said something to your friend beforehand about having a thing for her, then maybe your friend would have laid off of her and her you flirt with her.
indoxyl
October 5th, 2014, 11:48 PM
So this girl I recently started liking was flirting with me and my friend on the same night. We where all out drinking and she kept just flirting with us both, but more towards him. It's really annoyed me since I like her but he doesn't know that and neither does she. I don't really know if this can be answered but I thought I should post it since it was annoying me.

do you really expect things to go your way if you haven't even told your friend or the girl you like that you actually like her? obviously nothing is going to happen between you two if nobody knows you like her
James Dean
October 6th, 2014, 02:10 AM
I wouldn't think too much about it. Yeah it sucks the girl you liked was more interested in your friend, but just move on and accept it. Just try not to worry about it too much. It doesn't mean you weren't good enough or anything. There will be other girls, and I would just let them do their thing for right now. Maybe later you might get to know her more, maybe not. Chill out and don't stress over this. :)