suspicion in a relationship

[jessie3]

Have you or are you suspecting your partner of something guilty or something you might think is happening? Did your suspicion turn out to be right or wrong? If so, how did it effect your relationship?

Suspicion in a relationship is what I think is normal, but sometimes those suspicions become so hard for you to handle that it starts to affect a persons view on another person who they care and love so much.

[asrlem]

No relationship but i have a friend that is a girl not a gf and i dont suspect her of anything because we are just friends and if she got a bf i wouldn't care

[Paladino]

People say if you have A GUT FEELING, then it is usually true, however i believe suspicion and a gut feeling are two different feelings.

[CosmicNoodle]

I was suspicious about something in one of my relationships, not cheating, but something personal trobling her, I was right, it effected our relationship by making it stonger, because when I finally confronted her about it she was greatful for the support and our trust in one another grew slightly

[Uranus]

I get suspicious at times but I suppose it's normal for a relationship. And my suspicion was thankfully wrong

[JamesSuperBoy]

I do not think suspicion is normal -

[Rallo]

Have you or are you suspecting your partner of something guilty or something you might think is happening?
While with my ex I was often extremely paranoid when she talked or met up with other guys.

Did your suspicion turn out to be right or wrong?
Almost all of the time those thoughts were wrong. The times I was right, it was more things I was paranoid the guy would do, rather than what she would do; she never really did anything wrong herself.

If so, how did it effect your relationship?
Often I didn't tell her about the thoughts I had and how I was paranoid about certain things. The main time I did tell her that I was right, was completely the guys fault and not hers. I said I was paranoid something would happen if they met up. Once they met up, he tried to make a move on her.. She resisted and ended up heading home early. I trusted her story of events (and how she ended up coming home ~1-2 hours early), so there was no real effect on our relationship.


Suspicion in a relationship is what I think is normal, but sometimes those suspicions become so hard for you to handle that it starts to affect a persons view on another person who they care and love so much.
This is sadly true, at times it did get to the point where I was that scared and having so many paranoid thoughts about things that I would actually begin to believe they were real; I would (through these thoughts) convince myself she was doing something behind my back. When it gets to this point, that's when things begin to become unhealthy.

[Karkat]

You know, I've never really been suspicious of a partner.

I've been cheated on like, 4 times though, so maybe this isn't a good thing.

[James Dean]

I wasn't necessarily dating this person, but I was getting real close and contemplated on going to the next level with them, and looking back, I'm glad that I didn't. They told me they were single, so I guess this still counts as being cheated on. I would always ask if they wanted to go to the movies or go window shopping or whatever and they would refuse all the time. So I just raised my eyebrows on that.

Soon after that, I ran into them by accident at school and they had hickey marks and I didn't get upset or anything but it turns out I was right and they were with another person. I just ignored being in contact with them because it was just the fact they lied and couldn't be honest, and thank god I didn't have any classes with them because that would have been awkward to be around them.