View Full Version : How well & How much
Gumleaf
October 3rd, 2014, 08:37 PM
How well should you know someone, and like someone, to ask them out? I don't think there is a right or wrong answer, but would appreciate opinions. :)
Broken Toy
October 3rd, 2014, 08:39 PM
Well it depends from situation to situation.
Normally i would say like a month+ but if you've spent a lot of time with them it could be less than that
TheN3rdyOutcast
October 3rd, 2014, 08:57 PM
It's a bit rude to ask someone out when you don't even know their name, but including those rare instances where you bump into someone who you like, I'd say a safe range is about 10 minutes after you've met them at the very least.
ImCoolBeans
October 3rd, 2014, 09:49 PM
I think it's ok to ask somebody out on a date even if you don't really know them. If you have the intention to date somebody I think you should make the intention known and perhaps cut to the chase a little bit instead of becoming friends with them first, and establishing a platonic relationship.
asrlem
October 4th, 2014, 12:23 AM
I think a week because you need to make sure that they are comfortable with you and get to know you at least a little bit.
James Dean
October 4th, 2014, 03:06 AM
I think as earliest to when you first meet them, to the latest as never. There are some people who you might feel instantly attracted to and you just met them and already ten seconds you are planning the first date. Then there is someone who you see constantly, perhaps a crush or a close friend or anything, but you just get to scared or something about that person turns you off and you lose interest and move on. You never asked that person out but you probably saw them for months and years. So It depends on who it is.
ImagineRepublicCity
October 4th, 2014, 03:14 AM
Well, I would say quite well, because that's personal opinion, but remember there are sites like Tinder and RSVP and the lot (Most of them for 18+) and for those, a lot of those is really just "Oh, you're hot. Oh and you're interested in males, Oh and you're a straight female. I'll chat you up and see if you want to meet up"
In that case, you don't really know much of them.
It's personal opinion really, and it probably depends on your age too.
Body odah Man
October 4th, 2014, 04:58 AM
How well should you know someone, and like someone, to ask them out? I don't think there is a right or wrong answer, but would appreciate opinions. :)
Round a month or a few weeks. Depends how well you know each other and how comfortable you two are together.
Uranus
October 4th, 2014, 10:19 AM
It's more like how well of a connection you have between yourselves. You could know them for a month and know and like them...85%
Sometimes you could know them for a year and know and like them 60%
JamesSuperBoy
October 4th, 2014, 10:22 AM
How well should you know someone, and like someone, to ask them out? I don't think there is a right or wrong answer, but would appreciate opinions. :)
I guess there is no set answer just varies person to person - I think you should know well enough to at least arrange a date or activity that they will be interested in -
Gumleaf
October 4th, 2014, 11:03 PM
It's more like how well of a connection you have between yourselves. You could know them for a month and know and like them...85%
Sometimes you could know them for a year and know and like them 60%
That's what I was getting at in the original question. Not really how many days or weeks etc.
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