All guys Sleepover

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Okay so I was invited to this guys sleepover and he's a pretty awesome guy and i was like "frick yeah." I've been to his sleepovers, what, twice now?

Now the only other girl willing to go just ditched me so now I'm the only (straight) girl going, and all the other attendees are (straight, I think they all are) males all of which except one is single.

Now the first time I went to his place, I was the only chick and it was okay because his mum let me sleep in another room and the other time, there were another 2 girls and we all just went "Ha" and slept in the same room with the guys, but now there are going to be 10 guys there (according to the list) which I'm pretty sure is almost double what it was last time and I'm not sure if it's...let's say...safe...

Should I go? We're 15/16 and we're not all "Woo yeah, drugs and alcohol and sex," so I believe I'm 'technically' safe from any dangers one girl could face in a room of teenage guys but I'm still not sure if I should go. I feel it might be a bit awkward too (considering I'm not into FPS games and stuff, so they'll be like "What" and just play FPS games all night)

HELP ME PLEASE!!! It's on Tuesday, need to know soon~

Thank you for the help~ c:

[CosmicNoodle]

If it where me, I'd go, why not?
If you go and you don't enjoy it, at least you know, but if you don't go, you'll never know and may regrret not going.

[JamesSuperBoy]

Okay so I was invited to this guys sleepover and he's a pretty awesome guy and i was like "frick yeah." I've been to his sleepovers, what, twice now?

Now the only other girl willing to go just ditched me so now I'm the only (straight) girl going, and all the other attendees are (straight, I think they all are) males all of which except one is single.

Now the first time I went to his place, I was the only chick and it was okay because his mum let me sleep in another room and the other time, there were another 2 girls and we all just went "Ha" and slept in the same room with the guys, but now there are going to be 10 guys there (according to the list) which I'm pretty sure is almost double what it was last time and I'm not sure if it's...let's say...safe...

Should I go? We're 15/16 and we're not all "Woo yeah, drugs and alcohol and sex," so I believe I'm 'technically' safe from any dangers one girl could face in a room of teenage guys but I'm still not sure if I should go. I feel it might be a bit awkward too (considering I'm not into FPS games and stuff, so they'll be like "What" and just play FPS games all night)

HELP ME PLEASE!!! It's on Tuesday, need to know soon~

Thank you for the help~ c:


Ok if you feel awkward about it best to not go maybe suggest to him that you both can hang out together at some other time.

[Body odah Man]

Okay so I was invited to this guys sleepover and he's a pretty awesome guy and i was like "frick yeah." I've been to his sleepovers, what, twice now?

Now the only other girl willing to go just ditched me so now I'm the only (straight) girl going, and all the other attendees are (straight, I think they all are) males all of which except one is single.

Now the first time I went to his place, I was the only chick and it was okay because his mum let me sleep in another room and the other time, there were another 2 girls and we all just went "Ha" and slept in the same room with the guys, but now there are going to be 10 guys there (according to the list) which I'm pretty sure is almost double what it was last time and I'm not sure if it's...let's say...safe...

Should I go? We're 15/16 and we're not all "Woo yeah, drugs and alcohol and sex," so I believe I'm 'technically' safe from any dangers one girl could face in a room of teenage guys but I'm still not sure if I should go. I feel it might be a bit awkward too (considering I'm not into FPS games and stuff, so they'll be like "What" and just play FPS games all night)

HELP ME PLEASE!!! It's on Tuesday, need to know soon~

Thank you for the help~ c:

I'd ONLY go if you're sure that you can get a separate room, LOCKED, and away from the guys. If you can't get any of those things plz don't go, cuz it would be really dangerous for you and I'd be really sad if anything were to happen.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

If it where me, I'd go, why not?
If you go and you don't enjoy it, at least you know, but if you don't go, you'll never know and may regrret not going.

Yeah, I thought of that. I didn't go last time, but not much really happened according to one of my mates, but I don't know if it's worth the effort in the first place to go. He lives an hour and a half away via public transport.

I don't wanna regret it D:

Ok if you feel awkward about it best to not go maybe suggest to him that you both can hang out together at some other time.

I would have to wait until next holidays which is December/January. Do you think there's any way to make it less awkward?

I'd ONLY go if you're sure that you can get a separate room, LOCKED, and away from the guys. If you can't get any of those things plz don't go, cuz it would be really dangerous for you and I'd be really sad if anything were to happen.

Yeah, I can definitely get one. It happened the last time, and his mum was really understanding and she knwos about the safety. She was like "I've prepared a room for you upstairs for you to sleep in" and I was like "Yeah 8)"

[JamesSuperBoy]

Yeah, I thought of that. I didn't go last time, but not much really happened according to one of my mates, but I don't know if it's worth the effort in the first place to go. He lives an hour and a half away via public transport.

I don't wanna regret it D:



I would have to wait until next holidays which is December/January. Do you think there's any way to make it less awkward?

Not sure - I guess its to late to try and arrange another girl to go an hour and half aways MMMmmm I kinda think you should just pass on this one maybe -

or be sure you can check about getting your own room.

[Body odah Man]

Not sure - I guess its to late to try and arrange another girl to go an hour and half aways MMMmmm I kinda think you should just pass on this one maybe -

Yeah, I thought of that. I didn't go last time, but not much really happened according to one of my mates, but I don't know if it's worth the effort in the first place to go. He lives an hour and a half away via public transport.

I don't wanna regret it D:



I would have to wait until next holidays which is December/January. Do you think there's any way to make it less awkward?



Yeah, I can definitely get one. It happened the last time, and his mum was really understanding and she knwos about the safety. She was like "I've prepared a room for you upstairs for you to sleep in" and I was like "Yeah 8)"

If you can get a room I don't see the harm. HOWEVER, look at the post of the other guy I have quoted. I think you should trust his instinct.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Not sure - I guess its to late to try and arrange another girl to go an hour and half aways MMMmmm I kinda think you should just pass on this one maybe -

or be sure you can check about getting your own room.

If you can get a room I don't see the harm. HOWEVER, look at the post of the other guy I have quoted. I think you should trust his instinct.

Well, the room thing can be done, but I do have one friend and she isn't allowed to sleep over and she isn't going, but maybe if I convince her to stay until 10pm or something, would that be okay? Other than that, the other girls aren't in the country/city and the other just doesn't want to come.

[asrlem]

I would go but if you think something will happen then go with your gut feeling. Your gut feeling is always the most reliable

[James Dean]

The choice is yours. There is nothing wrong with having second thoughts though. If you don't feel comfortable doing anything, don't do it. Sometimes your gut feeling is right.

I do however think this might be a good experience for you. Yeah being the only girl might be weird, just make the best of out it. It might be fun.

Just make the choice you feel comfortable with. Don't worry about it. :)

[CassnovA]

If u go into this with sexual thoughts then i wouldnt go. End of the day its a group of mates who will be hanging out and having fun. Just be yourself and dont get into a situation u wouldnt be ok with ur parents knowing

[Elysium]

The fact that you're questioning this at all tells me you shouldn't go. Any discomfort or hesitance at all is a bad sign.

[Body odah Man]

Well, the room thing can be done, but I do have one friend and she isn't allowed to sleep over and she isn't going, but maybe if I convince her to stay until 10pm or something, would that be okay? Other than that, the other girls aren't in the country/city and the other just doesn't want to come.

I agree with Elysiums post (one above mine). The possible things that can go wrong are far far far too dangerous so if you're hesitant about this, even a teeny bit, DON'T go!

[ScottieDog]

I guess it ultimately comes down to how well you know and trust the guys going. If you know them all and trust them then it should be fine. If there's guys going who you're not sure about or who think might try something then might be best to get this one a miss.

[Perfectly Flawed]

If you trust the guys and have your own room I would go, but if you don't trust them I would be hesitant and very careful. Most of the time problems don't arise, but if they do they are usually pretty bad.

[Babiole]

Lucky you. I'm not allowed to have female friends over for sleepovers. They can come to my house during the day, but they can't stay over.

[Karkat]

The fact that you're questioning this at all tells me you shouldn't go. Any discomfort or hesitance at all is a bad sign.

Precisely this.

Best case scenario, you are nervous and uncomfortable some or all of the time. And that's a *best* case scenario. I wouldn't do it.

It'd be a different story if you didn't feel uncomfortable at all.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Just letting you know, this was 2 weeks ago, so it's already happened.

I went in the end, it was mostly just Counter Strike battles, but it was still real fun.

[Karkat]

Just letting you know, this was 2 weeks ago, so it's already happened.

I went in the end, it was mostly just Counter Strike battles, but it was still real fun.

Wow, I have no perception of the concept of time apparently. Sorry.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Wow, I have no perception of the concept of time apparently. Sorry.

Nah, it's all good. Happens to everyone c:

[chaosbreak]

I have a cousin who's kind of like a sister to me who's also 15.

I wouldn't want her to go to a party with only guys even if there was another girl.

But that's just me, if you feel comfortable with the setup, then you should go.

[Luminous]

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