View Full Version : hey guys need an advice
Cricket97
October 2nd, 2014, 11:46 AM
There is a girl in my school who gets along really Bad with my bff. She always tries to hit her nerve, she once purposely hit her shouldher with hers. And now, im in the same class with her. She sits in front of me. İn the first few days, she acted very cold. But later, she started talking to me casually, she gave me water , talking about tattooes for example. etc it looked very unstable to me. İ tried not to get too friendly cause i know she is irritable. I solved some questions she couldn't solve. My bff says she is trying to play with my mind and trying to ruin our friendship. So what do you think i should do? Am i doing wrong? Because i just dont want to get hurt because i gave someone too much and i also don't want to look like im acting on my friend's orders.
JamesSuperBoy
October 2nd, 2014, 12:42 PM
There is a girl in my school who gets along really Bad with my bff. She always tries to hit her nerve, she once purposely hit her shouldher with hers. And now, im in the same class with her. She sits in front of me. İn the first few days, she acted very cold. But later, she started talking to me casually, she gave me water , talking about tattooes for example. etc it looked very unstable to me. İ tried not to get too friendly cause i know she is irritable. I solved some questions she couldn't solve. My bff says she is trying to play with my mind and trying to ruin our friendship. So what do you think i should do? Am i doing wrong? Because i just dont want to get hurt because i gave someone too much and i also don't want to look like im acting on my friend's orders.
I think you did ok - maybe your bff is overreacting or maybe scared to loose you but you can choose your friends and try to get along with everyone you decide to. :yes:
CosmicNoodle
October 2nd, 2014, 01:33 PM
If it where me I'd ignore her, but thats not the best thing to do, probably. Just don't get to close to this bitch...I mean...girl....
ScottieDog
October 2nd, 2014, 02:17 PM
If this girl doesn't get on with your best friend then it's probably not going to be a great idea to get friendly with her as it will end in badly. I mean if you like her you can talk to her a bit but it's maybe not worth building up a friendship.
James Dean
October 3rd, 2014, 02:18 AM
Just continue to do what you're doing, you don't have to be her friend. Helping her with her school work is fine, but don't bring up your friend in any conversations with her and if she brings it up, just tell her you don't want to talk about it and that's a situation she has to talk out with her. I can tell you are pretty good at judging people so if you see she is being shady or something like that, then you know what to do. But so far it seems like you are getting on well with her. People get along well with some, to others people might find hard to deal with. So hopefully you understand how this situation is. Also, give us an update if you like.
Cricket97
October 3rd, 2014, 07:04 AM
Thanks everyone for advice
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