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Athompso
October 2nd, 2014, 02:00 AM
So for a while now I have been curious about my guy friends. I want to experiment but I know asking them would be awkward but sometimes I get really jittery because I really want to kiss them or something. Any advise on how I could maybe not act so wierd around them?
James Dean
October 2nd, 2014, 04:00 AM
You should probably see if they are like that first. I just worry about you and I don't want you to get into trouble. Not every guy is interested in that, I can speak from experience. There were some friends I had who I knew weren't gay or bi that I was attracted to, so I just had to deal with it. Just talk to them, let them know you. Only when you feel ready to, don't rush it. Then if they aren't who you thought they were, or if they don't do that, respect them and move on. You can still be friends with them but just respect their sexuality like you want to be respected. As time goes on you will probably meet accepting people and hopefully you keep both friends of all sexualities if you need to.
Drewboy
October 2nd, 2014, 10:30 PM
First of all, don't make anyone uncomfortable, that's never good. But sometimes just bringing up sexual stuff will get a conversation started, as a lot of teenage guys do want to talk about sexual things. It might lead to something, it might not. But don't force it. If they want it to happen, it will happen. You will meet plenty of open people throughout your lifetime, I promise. :)
Slashman1
October 2nd, 2014, 10:48 PM
try truth and dare and take it slow from there and see how far they will go just remember lots of guys like to experiment even if its just once so keep an open mind and try it and even if they say no just play it cool and change the subject but be careful about the kissing part some don't like that because they think it might make them gay
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