View Full Version : How do you first discovered your sexuality
Dacta
September 29th, 2014, 04:21 PM
hi, i'm a 16 y/o guy and i have been in both, gay and straight relationships but i'm a little confused because i don't know to which i belong and this is the first time i think about this, and it gets me really annoyed! :/
anyone with similar experiences who can help me through this?
Luminous
September 29th, 2014, 04:24 PM
Having romantic and sexual attraction to both biological men and women is called bisexuality, or bi. You don't have to 'choose' between being gay or straight because you've enjoyed and experienced both heterosexual and homosexual relationships.
Ben_Frost
September 29th, 2014, 10:39 PM
I think it isn't something you choose or decide from one day to another, you must be sure you like one or another, or if you like both to define your sexuality.
Cognizant
September 29th, 2014, 10:43 PM
I've been in your situation. It really sucks dick. But you don't need to choose a label.
James Dean
September 30th, 2014, 03:02 AM
Well generally it's bisexuality. You can't help what you are attracted to. I myself don't like putting labels on things, but the sad thing is sometimes you have to. If you're not gay, you're straight and I hate how it is so terrible that many people see it like that.
I find myself attracted to guys and sometimes girls. I just like having my cake and eating it too. Just be yourself and accept yourself. Find someone who you like and don't care about labels. Your sexuality will figure itself out sooner or later.
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